Was I wrong in saying I would pay on our third date?

Went on two dates with this boy and I never offered to pay and he paid for everything. I figure everything is so expensive I should pay on this third date. My mom told me no that he should pay because my father paid on every date they went on. But I figure times have changed since then and I don't want him... show more Went on two dates with this boy and I never offered to pay and he paid for everything. I figure everything is so expensive I should pay on this third date. My mom told me no that he should pay because my father paid on every date they went on. But I figure times have changed since then and I don't want him to think I am high matienece. I told two girls I work with I also offered to pay and they said I should not have. I thought because he is a man and men are very proud human beings he might tell me no that's ok I want to pay but he didn't. Was I wrong? What should I do the next date? Will he expect me to pay then too?
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