Am I just lucky?

Listening to my husband this morning tell me about relationship advice he had given female co-workers in the past, I realized that those women probably hate me for landing such a great man. He truly understands women and what we need to be happy. He treats me so well, is always there for me to lean on, ready to give a compliment or listen to me vent after a bad day. My phone is full of the sweetest text messages from him, and they come out of the blue while I am at work.

We have our ups and downs too, but overall, our relationship is as close to perfect as you can get. He is truly my best friend and I am his. I cannot imagine my life without him.

Anybody else have the same feelings about their spouses?


Before anyone says anything, we are not a teen couple, we are both 33 years old, and we've been together almost 7 years with 5 kids between us from prior marriages. I just think it's wonderful that we can still be so in love after several years together.

Update 2:

He is also a hopeless romantic...he proposed on a chartered sailboat, and still asks me out on dates. Since we have both been married before and have matured as adults, we are able to bring our past experiences into our relationship and know what works and what doesn't. Here's to all of you happily married people!!!

Update 3:

To Tha_grinchness, I have no idea who the hell you are, I have never answered one of your questions, nor a question of someone else's that you have answered. I suggest you take your diet pills and put them someplace that hasn't seen the light of day. You had NO RIGHT to come to my question attacking me for no reason, and have been reported for doing so. Have a wonderful day.

BTW, jealous much?

12 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    O yes, I have the exact same guy. He makes up for all his laziness with the sweetness. You better hold on to him. Yes you are lucky and that's OK, you must deserve it, God doesn't make mistakes so it was your turn in life.

  • 1 decade ago

    You are so very lucky ! I like you have the same kind of husband. We have been married for 22 years. He is my everything. He still brings me flowers and calls me when he is at work just to hear my voice.

    We have our ups and downs also . We learned so early in our marriage that we needed to talk about everything, and we do. Now that our three children are grown (well we only have one left at home) we go out on dates. He never ceases to amaze me.

    I wish you and your husband a long and happy marriage.

  • 4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    No, I don't think anybody has a husband like yours. LOL. You do have a rare man and are very lucky. I'm jealous. But, I'm sure he is lucky to have you too. Sounds like a great union. I have an unappreciative husband who takes me for granite. You are lucky my dear.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You sure are lucky but like they say good things can turn bad in your case I really hope they don't. You both been married before so you know exactly what to expect and don't go down the same path. Congratulations to you both.

  • Sean C
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Yes there are still some of us good guys out there. Unfortunately for most women, we are all taken.

    Corrine B, There are other happy couple with good relationships out there. My wife and I are at least 1.

    Raise your classes to Happy Couples!! Everyone join me in a toast!

  • 1 decade ago

    That's great that you all still have those giddy emotions for each other, and that may be since this is not our first marriages you all knew what you were looking for.

    More power to you!

  • 1 decade ago

    Yeah I have a pretty amazing husband and relationship myself. I sometimes wonder if other marriages are this happy. I truely hope that they are.

  • 1 decade ago

    My wife is awesome!!! Has been for over 27 years! Everyone has ups and downs.... ya just gotta work thru them!

    Congrats on finding your mate.

  • 1 decade ago

    aaawwww, this brought me to tears, i wish i had that and am happy for you. my marriage is ruined before it even begun and i admire you two for having such a special connection. i do believe it can happen, not often, but it can.

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