First off go to ur local skate shop unless they really suck cuz most online dealers dont have a good selection and can be unreliable. U should get Reds Bearings, low Independent trucks, try to get the smallest possible wheels size dont go above 52 tho the smallest wheels ive ever seen are 48s but they are almost impossible to find. just remember the smaller the better and get bones wheels. for ur deck get like mystery theyre good decks but baker makes good one 2. What i just listed is the cheap stuff tho if u want a really sick board then get this. Bone Swiss Ceramic Bearings ($120, best bearings in the world, literally); Bones Padlock 49 Wheels ($60, the smallest wheels available from bones and u want smaller wheels cuz it makes tricks easier); get Koston Low Black Independant trucks but get bones bushings put on ask the guy at the store which hardness u should get. I get hard but u should proly get medium (bushings are those rubber things in the trucks near the kingpins) thats about $30 for the trucks the idk how much for the bushings proly like $10 ;for the griptape get the baker greco hammers (about $5 - $10 dollars); for the deck get one of the following:
$LAVE - Ben Hortons New Company. Has some pretty sick decks but it might just not be your style. slave boards are my favorite though. slave decks are manufactured in Jamie Thomas (JT)'s Deck factory in mexico. the decks i personally like from slave are the kennedy assasination deck, the moon landing deck, and the apeman deck (make sure u get a size between 7" and 7.75" for any deck anywere)
ZERO-makes pretty cool decks i used to be obsessed with this company. if u get a zero deck get a chris cole or team deck. If u dont know who chris cole is then look him up hes one of the best skaters of all time. made in jts mexican deck factory
MYSTERY-i personally dont prefer mystery but u might like em also made in jts little corner in mexico
BAKER-these are not made in JTs mexican factory so the board quality isnt as good but its still really cool and andrew reynolds rides for baker so try to get a reynolds deck. Also if u wanna really skate and get good at it and really have fun with it then practice alot cuz no one will really respect your skating until u can kickflip, 50-50 a rail, and ollie a 4 stair. so skate alot, and dont lie about doing tricks. and to tell u the truth being a girl is just gonna make it harder unless theres other girls who skate were u live but dont let anyone tell u u cant skate cuz ur a girl cuz thats just stupid.