How do accept the fact...that he ...?

...doesn't love you?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Well before you do anything, you have to make sure he doesn't! You have to sit down with him, tell him your feelings and see how he feels. He may not love you just yet, but love builds up.

    If you know that it isn't going to happen, you need to just try and move on. It will be hard at first but you need to think about the future, you want to find someone who loves you and who you can be happy with.

    I hope everything is sorted out in the end :)

    Source(s): Harry and Alix combined to make an all fearing HarryAlix.
  • 1 decade ago

    I had to accept that fact twice in my life. Unfortunately, it's very hard to accept at first. You feel very empty inside and you feel like all your dreams have died. Time is always the answer, as anyone will tell you. The one good thing is that the quicker you accept it, (don't try to win him back) the quicker the hurt will go away. Don't let yourself believe that this person was your 'soul-mate'. That's old and for the birds. I truly believed that with my first marriage. Ha -there are many people who can be as close, if not closer, than he was to you. That's probably hard for you to believe right now, however it is true!!Whether it be simply a friend or a partner. What is great in the end, is usually several years down the road (and it happened both times with me) that same person wants you back. The funny thing is then, you no longer want them. It's ironic, yet somehow you change and grow with every experience. You know also what they say, "What doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger."

  • 1 decade ago

    First, accept the fact that you're ok. This is one of life's lessons that is always painful, but like the others, this too shall pass. Have you ever changed your mind about doing something with somebody? Well, other people have the right to change their mind too. But, you can't let their choice have this much power over you. OK, he doesn't love you. Look in the mirror and tell yourself that he don't know what he is going to miss, and go on about your business. If you allow that person's decision to have that much power in your life, you are in for a roller coaster ride that you won't believe. Accept it and know that there is another man out there who is going to cherish the ground you walk on and when you get him, the memory of what you're going through now will fade out like the 70's.

  • 1 decade ago

    When i was in highschool i used to always think i was in love. I was with this girl for 3 years.. I would say ilu all the time. But then we broke up.. I was so upset. COuldnt eat puke all the time. Cry.. Than i got over it and a new girl came into my life .. and i really found out what true love is. You will find peiple in ur life who tell you there n love, But they dont no what true love is, Because they havent expierenced it yet. Only fake love. What they think is love. How can you tell how and apple taste is youve only tasted watermellon... Sure the apple is good.. And you think its the best.. But once you find your watermellon... Than it takes you by surprise and u find out what true love is. Noone knows wht true love is till they find it. No mattert how much it huts. move on and you will fuind the right one for u. The one who feels the same way bout u

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  • J.D.S.
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Well, if a guy doesn't feel attracted to you, then the only thing you could do is to first acknowledge that you're not his type and move on and think of who else might be suitable for you.

    After all, have you ever had to tell a man that he is not your type and he just keeps trying but doesn't listen? It's like that.

    Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well it may takes time to accept that fact, cos if you love him then it's really hard to accept it but that doesn't mean you can't let go of it...

    find something or someone who will let you forget about him...find things that make u feel good...and try as hard as you can to get this fact off your mind...ignore him

    ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    I almost wish I was that generic type of guy that can just distance himself from a girl he liked. I'm the opposite. I won't go for anyone I don't think I could love, and the one I did, didn't love me back. It's so harsh... so so harsh!

  • 1 decade ago

    In this world all is not according to our desire. Relax, accept the fact and enjoy

    Source(s): own thinking
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Say the word, "Next"!

    In fact, say it a few times.

  • Maria
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    gosh..we are having the same situation..i know how much it's hurt..all i can say is don't think about him anymore. I know it's hard, but you can do it. dont just sit in your room.go out having fun with your friends.next you know you over him!trust me..

    p/s: I gave u advice,but I cant do it myself..D'oh!goodLuck,sweetie..

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