Someone anyone pls help me?

When my bf left me, and i found this guy whom i love for five yrs, he run away cause he is not sure he is in love with me or not. now he sure that he is in love with me from the beginning, when i know the truth i am happy, not at the problem is my bf wants me back

Update:

now i am really in love with the second guy, and i don't know why i cling to my bf, maybe i don't want to hurt his feeling,cause he invest so much on me?

I am lost really lost

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Girl, the best I can tell you is to follow your heart.. If your bf left you and you don't really love him then tell him that you don't really think that yalls relationship is going anywhere, let him down easy if you don't want to hurt him, and go for the one you love!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Who do you love more? I suggest choose the person whom you love more regardless of who want you back or not, but your bf who left you gives me doubts. Do some soul searching. Are you ready to forget all the hurts your bf gave you when he left you? I f yes, go ahead give him another chance. If you don't have any feelings anymore and want to move on, then go with the guy whom you love for five years, and face the future together. Regards.

  • don't take your bf back he left you!. Follow your heart and choose the person who you love most , maybe it is none of these men and that's OK to. Go with your gut feeling and don't fall for false promises. Maybe you need some time alone to sort out what you want.

  • 1 decade ago

    "Those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it." Niche

    It may be in your best interest for you to move on from the both of them. They sound like they are indecisive and do not have a solid grip on what they want. Remember what you want. They may want you now but who is to say that it won't happen again. It may happen. It may not. The safe bet is to continue with your life and find someone else or you can gamble with one of these guys. I hope you do find happiness with whatever choice you do decide though.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Girl he left you why would you talk him back, if you love him I know its hard but you need to look at both relationships look at the good and the bad and which ever one was the best stay with that.

  • 1 decade ago

    well, if he left you, why the fu*ck would you take him back? the thing for him is that you slapped his ego when you started going out with someone else and he can't stand the thought of someone else being where he's been and now he wants you back just to prove to himself he can get you back....it hasn't got anything to do with you, but with his own ego and insecureities....if the new guy really love you, then stay with him and be happy.....and let your ex know you're happy....

  • TX Mom
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Point your little nose to the sky and sniff. Look down upon his worthless self and say, with a very snooty tone. "Do go away. You're not worthy of me."

    Then go find the guy you love and marry him.

    TX Mom

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell these two to fight to the death. Whoever survives, gets the girl.

    No seriously...dump them both and find a guy who knows what he wants.

  • 1 decade ago

    all that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream

  • 1 decade ago

    just dont get him back if he dumped u. follow your heart & your instincts & u'll get your answer......

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