hi My father very root with me what can I do?

5 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
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    Did you mean to be in the Home and Garden section? If you mean that your father is rude to you, the only thing you can do is have a good chat with him when he is calm. Explain to him how you feel and see if he treats you better. Now, if you are a tree and you are rooting, the only thing I can suggest is that you keep spreading those roots and try to sprout some flowers.

  • Sptfyr
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I'm going to assume you mean that your father is "rude" to you. Well, in my experience, being rude to someone shows disrespect for them. I don't know what your relationship is like with your father, but my suggestion is that if you show respect then you will get respect. However, this is not always the case when it comes to certain personalities. I know that when someone is rude, especially when someone you respect, like your father, is rude can be very hurtful so you might consider telling him how you feel and ask him to start speaking to you with a little respect. Being direct is the only way to change a behavior.

    Good Luck

  • 1 decade ago

    If you do the best to not disappoint him, in some ways, and it is not any reason to be rude with you.

    This is uncomfortable to be treated inappropriate!

    Most of people in young age not understand the father that want to discipline children, but some fathers are more or less hard, to show the nice way to Oby the child.

    I never was mad when my father was strict with me. And I never complain how he treated me.

    Try to do the best to listen him, and if he not change, talk to him with respect, to say to him that you not see any reason to be rude with you.

    Even now, after 60 I miss my father.!

    Best wishes to better loving way.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your father is RUDE to you ? Well, you should sit him down and talk to him and tell him that by him treating you rude is not healthy for the both of you and what happend for this reason to treat you that way. Unless he is an ASSHOLE OF A FATHER THAT DOES NOT GIVE A CRAP ABOUT HOW HE TREATS YOU then there is no way of getting thru to him .

    or the other idea is talking your mom and having your mom talk to him about him being rude to you and to lay off on the rudeness.

    Source(s): My FATHER AFTER 30 YEARS TREATED ME LIKE SHIT to the point where I got so feed up and my OLDER SISTER KICKED HIS ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS .
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  • 1 decade ago

    Perhaps if you had a discussion with him and asked him why he feels it is necessary to treat you in this disrespectful manner.

    Then you will find the answer to your question. It may not be the answer you want to hear though.

    He may feel disappointed in some of your life decisions. Or he may feel some of your personal habits are not pleasing to him.


    He has a reason.

    But be prepared for his answer.

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