Well, just make sure you guys go out more, and do things you both enjoy. If he enjoys being with you then he will value you as a partner. Of course, if you are not ready for full-on sex, you can do role plays and just turn him on, if you have no problems with that. You can dress up, or strip for him. Only do this if YOU want to, and don't give in to the pressure. Just tell him, if he feels disappointed or unhappy about your decision concerning sex, he is free to leave the relationship because it is something you cannot do until you feel comfortable, and you do not want him to be in an unhappy relationship. It's a tough one Ms, but there is no easy way out of it, and if this becomes a problem, you guys will have to have the talk. Usually turning men on and doing sexy things keeps his tongue wagging, so maybe you can try that to stall the whole sex question for a little while. Like I said before, you are not a piece of meat, and it is not your sole purpose in life to please men, so if you don't want to do any of this, don't give in to the pressure. Hope this helps.