Men like big boobs, big butts, big legs and big hips, and a soft, "feminine" figure, being a little on the larger side never bothers them until you get REALLY big as in 590lbs and bed-bound unless they're that into BBW's and a lot of men are. The problem being that women and men are nurtured to have different views of attractiveness along with their already prudent sexualities; so whatever a man thinks looks hot a woman thinks it looks horrible at worst and vice versa, so "normal" considered by men is just a little larger than what women call "normal" they just want someone with junk in places whereas women want crystal-cut defined things. Even my brother who's one of those "alpha-male" types who you'd expect to go 'eeeurrgggh!!' upon seeing a big woman because he has in front of others before to look cool, even he gets his rocks off to larger ladies, that's another factor too: Peer Pressure, but that's another story. Basically; they want cushion to snuggle up to and hold.