Married,forgive cheating vs BF cheating?

when people ask: should i forgive my partner for cheating, a lot of times people say, if you are married yes, because you committed, how contradicting is that. you married, committed, he isnt committed enough not to cheat but you should be to stay thru all this? i am not saying there is a better or worse when... show more when people ask: should i forgive my partner for cheating, a lot of times people say, if you are married yes, because you committed, how contradicting is that. you married, committed, he isnt committed enough not to cheat but you should be to stay thru all this? i am not saying there is a better or worse when someone cheats, to me married or not you dont do it if you love someone. i never understood when people make such a difference about it. just wondered about the reaction of people when it comes to that subject. any insight?
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