What does this say to you?

I was going to post this in the Singles and Dating area but I think I need a married person's perspective on this.

Here's the situation. Boy and girl are together for three years (living together for two) and boy breaks up with girl and takes off to somewhere else. Boy realizes he made a mistake and misses/loves girl and wants her back. Boy says so. Girl's response

"I really really care about you and I still love you and miss you but right know I'm trying to find out what I want and need from my life"

What is she really saying? Does our boy have hope?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Possibly! Boy must try to win girl back if he cares about her that much. Boy must decide however what he really wants. Boy cant change mind again if he gets her back. Boy must make girl feel like a queen and not just until she is won back, but for the entire lifetime of the relationship. Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes, possibly. It really depends on the relationship and the background. I feel that the girl doesn't want to just jump right back into the relationship for fear that the boy will do it again. And, whose to say he won't? She has every right to be weary. Plus she has discovered her newfound freedom and wants to see where that goes. If the relationship was strong for the most part, I don't see why they won't be together in the future.

  • Sue F
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    She is saying that your boy has no hope. The boy choose something or someone else over her, so that is the end.

    She is finding out that she does not need the boy in order to live a good life.

    His loss, and his bad choice.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Na, let that one go. Move on down the road to the next relationship. If you let him come back, he'll know he can come back anytime he wants.

    I have never done the online thing, I'm not sure how it works. I have met local gals through friends. Not that they set me up, just hanging out with them. You have to become very social and get out there. Go to all the local events, football games, music stuff, even if it's not something you really love, just go and do. Good Luck

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  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like the Girl moved on with her life. Good for her=) And the Boy has no chance in hell.I wouldn't take him back I don't think and smart woman would

    Goddess Bless

  • 1 decade ago

    I think she may actually just need time to think about the situation. Especially if she was hurt by the boy. No one wants to get hurt and we try to avaoid it at all costs. You know the saying...once bitten twice shy?

    Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    1. You were BOTH jerks for living together. It shows lack of respect for each other.

    2. Boy was smart to get out.

    3. Girl is smart to refuse to take him back. Boy should RESPECT her enough now to give her space.

  • She was probably very hurt when he took off, and is finally realizing that he wasn't worth the trouble. She is looking for someone more stable and true. He should move on and learn his lesson. It's a bitter pill for sure!

  • 1 decade ago

    Boy has about 10% hope; 90% NOT.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    To me, this means she too has found someone else, but doesn't know if it's going to work out or not. She's trying to move on with her life, but doesn't want to burn bridges just in case.

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