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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Why does my Girlfriend talk to her ex boyfriends?

I ve been with my girlfriend for a little ove a year and i think shes is very interesting and loving person. when i met her, her exs were always callin her on her phone trying to get back with her a few months ago she got a new phone and number and her exs call her on that phone too. I ask her why she feels she need to talk with them and basically what she said she was trying to make them feel guilty for cheating on her. She talks to other guys she messed with wh o treated her very very bad an she talks to them too. she also has a private myspace where she wont add me but i know she has most of her exs as friends cuz i seen her on their page. ive been asked to stop but she dont and i know if me exs were callin and i talked to them she get all mad i dont have no girls who are friends. .Anyways im a good bf and im tired of this all i ask is that she dont talk to her exs wat should i do and plz yall dnt give me no **** about how there is no ring on her finger and she can talk to whoever

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well brotha she is what you call a person who needs attention from whoeva she can get it from. So basically if you stop giving her attention then she will probably know you meen business and that you really want her to stop talking to her ex's. If she can't respect that then you have to take your s h i t and bouce ain't no need 4 u 2 be in a relationship thats going to include you her and her ex's.

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  • 5 years ago

    I think you on that one.She is doing that to get your attention. She seems like a drama female. Go away her. That's nasty i would now not wish to hear in regards to the ex's that implies she has been with numerous guys. Let her know that you each are a new starting so she do not need to speak about her prior if she continues then destroy up along with her. Additionally why she has them on myspace ? If she talks about them excellent or bad what's the point ?

  • 1 decade ago

    Girls are not horny dogs. We actually do feel like friends to guys. Guys usually just use that as an excuse to get close to a girl. I am friends with all of my exs, and believe me I have no desire to reunite with any of them. They on the other hand, would love to get back into the saddle. I just keep them at a distance. They just keep hope that one day I will change my mind. I have told them all no way, and believe me I MEAN IT.

    About that private My space. That is another thing all together. She has no business doing that. Ask her how she would feel if you had a private MySpace with all of your exs on it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hay man. I have read your post. It sounds to me like she wonts to have you & her ex, bfs . As the 1st poster sead "Thay have histry togetter" will you and your ex, gfs have histry togetter to. But she thank she can have you (Alone). But you have to share her with her ex, bfs. Becouse "she was trying to make them feel guilty for cheating on her" If that was the case she would have you on her privet my space and have alot of pic of you and her on it. That Knowing she has moved on would get to them more then any thing.

    If it was me. I would just tell her. Look you are talking to your exboyfriends eather let me talk to my exgirlsfried (Without you geting mad at me) are you drop your ex bf. You can't be with me and have them as friend inlest it works broth ways.

    If she she gets mad and ends it. I would just say. That you must already be back with one of them. That is the reson you are hideing me you hide me from them? And don't wont them to know about me.

    (If she can do it, You sould beable to do it.)

  • 1 decade ago

    why are you putting up with all of this ??? don't you deserve better from a woman ??? why are you still in this relationship knowing that she is sharing herself with all of her exs and not being serious about you and her being in this relationship??? reality check is what you need, she is still doing all of this and yous have been together for over a year and you haven't left her yet... common, what do you need to see all of the red flags here that she is not a good girlfriend??? leave her and find another woman who will not want to share herself with all of her exs and one who can be serious with you about making you her life...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think your girlfriend has a problem. She talks to them to make them feel guilty of cheating on her? And she knows that it hurts you when she talks to them a lot. I dont know but maybe you should just look for another girlfriend who is more sensitive to your feelings.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    there's a lot of stuff wrong with this picture

    number one why does she have a private myspace...umm maybe cause she's hidding stuff from you

    second how did their ex's get her new number...

    If I was you I would lay the cards down and talk to his ex's c'mon you don't want to be the one being played nobody deserves that!!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Put simply - she loves all the attention. She's getting more than her fair share, she's an attention whore. I'd lose her, she sounds like she's a serial flirt who will step on anyone's feelings to make herself good. There's a special name for girls like that... ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    If they are ex's it doesn't mean they aren't friends. It just means they broke up after they were going out.

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