Overprotective mother in law?

If you had a mother in law who: a. put down everything you did b. said constantly you didn't need to work - although you enjoyed it and it allowed you and your family to have less financial pressure. c. complained about you taking your children on holiday abroad - saying you were only doing it for the... show more If you had a mother in law who:
a. put down everything you did
b. said constantly you didn't need to work - although you enjoyed it and it allowed you and your family to have less financial pressure.
c. complained about you taking your children on holiday abroad - saying you were only doing it for the benefit of your tan not so that the kids could enjoy it.
d. basically said that they were always right and you were always wrong.
Would you still want them to look after your children? Although you would probably be grateful that she did look after them - would all of the above eventually make you and your partner leave the children with someone else so that you don't have to put up with your MIL any more?
Do you think that the MIL would ever realise what pressure she is putting on your relationship with her son and with the children? Or would she carry on regardless determined that she is right?
Update: Just a quick note - My MIL is lovely and I have none of the above problems with her.
Update 2: crazymental and heather - you are right x x
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