When couples marry today ; it is usually not without some sexual experience . If one's girlfriend has a low libido to one's own high sexuality ; it is wise to sort the matter out , have sex therapy , before getting married . A low sex drive is not going to get better after the wedding . If you are very highly sexed , you should have found a similarly highly sexed partner . If you are a married man , what are you doing with another naked girl in front of you ; shame on you . Take up a vigorous sporting activity that will absorb some of your surpless energy .
Look up " Libidus " on the internet , it is a herbal remedy like Viagra or Cialis , but without the side effects . It is very effective for men , but they make a version for women , which it is claimed , with a little stimulation really turns them on . Failing that get inventive with masturbation !!! If you become habitually unfaithful to your wife ; not only do you run the risk of hurting her and losing her ; but also of bringing home an STD or HIV . Control yourself , don't put yourself in the way of temptation !!!