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Any predictions on the outcome or what i need to look out for in my next pregnancy?

i had 3 2nd trimester pregnancy losses. The first two was with twins and the last pregnancy was with triplets. My doc thinks i have incompetent cervix. i had a cerclage put in with the last 2 pregnancies but they failed .ive never been pregnant with a singleton. i pray about it everyday... mayb im just looking for a sign that everything is ok and that im going to have healthy pregnancies and babies..Any predictions, insights or word of incouragement are appriciated . THANKS!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Nearly one third of all pregnacies end in miscarriage in the first trimester, and quite a few after. It's normal and natural, NOT necessarily a sign that you can't have healthy babies, although in today's world, any incomplete is somehow the mother's fault. Pthhhhh on that, I say....

    As stated, you are looking for more than just medical advice. But here's some anyway. Take your women's health herbs. Not only will they assist with any physical issues, they will also impart thier wisdom to your body. Wild Yam, Saw Palmetto, Red Raspberry and esp. Vitex, which is the world's greatest womb toner. Cures just about everything if you take it for long enough.

    Wild Yam:


    Here are some book references.

    Susan Weed can help with nutritional and herbal support before, during, and a bit after pregnancy, including stopping a miscarriage and recovering from one. Yes, there are herbs to do that. We HAVE been doing this a long time.

    Wise Woman Herbal for the Childbearing Year

    This is written by a midwife and has physical and mental exercises to deal with the beauty and challenge of becoming a mother. The meditations are not nearly stressed enough, and some women really need them. Not dealing with the pregnancy, or being scared, can tip the balence for some women.

    Prenatal Yoga And Natural Birth (Paperback)

    by Jeannine Baker

    Took me years to figure out that one of my cats has to sacrifice it's life before I can get pregnant. One life must be given for another. Now the dreams I had for years about giving birth to kittens makes sense. Another woman I know has the exact same signs. It's spiritually consistant and energy conserving, but I don't try to get close to cats anymore...

    But I do anyway.

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  • 1 decade ago

    First, I am saddened by your loss. Second, I suggest you listen to your doctor or midwives advice, given your past history. Third, and this is ONLY because you are asking under the "Mythology and Folklore" section, there are certain practices considered 'safe' or condusive for a successfull pregnancy. Some of these are:

    -no knots; in your hair or clothing (like a knotted sash);

    -find and keep holed stones in the home, threaded with red ribbon;

    -acquire water from sacred wells that promote fertility, or visit sacred sites that do the same;

    -keep your mind free from any negative thoughts - which means not watching horror movies, the evening news, violent films, etc.

    -find a big-breasted / big-bellied goddess figurine to wear as an amulet;

    -above all else ... Above All Else .. eat healthy, rest much, be mindful of the precious life growing within you, ask your Mother Ancestors for help, and listen to your care providers!

    Best of Luck!

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  • 1 decade ago

    I knew a couple of women who kept miscarrying and one that was told she would never have children. Each one kept on trying, kept the hope alive, got healthy, took care of themselves and now, 2 of them have 2 children and the one who was suppose to be technically barren, has 3.

    Don't worry. Everything happens for a reason. Just keep on praying, take good care of yourself and who knows what will happen. Maybe in a few years, we'll see your questions on how to deal with babies not sleeping thru the night!

    Lots of Love and God Bless!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Please get hold of the book "Sophia" Living Loving-Her Own Story

    by A.E.Hotchner

    Sophia Loren, after many losses, found a doctor who helped her, and she had two beautiful, healthy babies; she describes the procedures and the experiences in detail. So yes, you too can give birth to healthy children; do not give up your dreams!

    Good luck!

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  • 1 decade ago

    ive had one miscarriage in september of last year. Its very devestating. I just want to say good luck and I hope all goes well for you. If you need support join us over on,

    they have a really good forum with lots of support.

    Im squirrelgurl07 on there. Good luck again.!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    1 should be easier good luck and may the little one be happy heatlhy and grow up 2 be wise and knid

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  • 1 decade ago

    good luck with this one umm here are some runes that you can consecrate to help with fertility and pregnacy if you make them right I am sure they woulf help other ones worked for me here is the page but all so look on how to enpower them here they are

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  • 1 decade ago

    Keep trying. Every baby you miscarry is more stem cells for the scientists, and when you finally get it right you will know the joy of having your own child.

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