i'm not happy!!?

what should i do if i'm in a relationship that i'm not happy in?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    talk it out

  • 1 decade ago

    Find out why you are not happy in the relationship by sitting down and writing a list with 2 columns. Pros (good) and Cons (bad) of the relationship and of course the person. Sometimes the little voice you hear inside yourself is usually right, but the list will tell you what it is wrong. You do not want to regret a break-up only to find out later on you made a mistake. Good Luck

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  • love
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    1 decade ago

    Well, there's many things that could make you unhappy in a relationship. Make sure that you are keeping an open and honest relationship with the person. Maybe you want to take a break from the relationship for a while. It really depends on how long you've known the person, what the problem is, etc.

  • Mami
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    end it.. being in a relationship where you are not happy.. you are not going to make that partner happy either. There are plenty of good guys out there that will make you happy. Don't lead the guy/girl on by making them think that you are so madly in love with them.

    What if this relationship continues and he proposes to you? What if, you being the nice girl and don't want to hurt his feelings say yes? What if ya'll are married and have kids and the whole time you are not happy and become depressed? What if you have to spend the rest of your life with this person?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if your not happy you should get out of it as soon as possible if not , it will be so much more harded down the road. i was in a relationship and i wasnt happy and i waited almost a year and by that time i met someone that i really liked...then when i broke up with the other guy it made me look really bad , so i think you should get out SOON!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Get out of it if your not happen why stay and be miserable for the rest of your life. When you can find a relationship you are happy in.

  • 1 decade ago

    It depends if you really were happy with him for a while talk to him about it.Maybe somethings wrong and he's been acting strange because of that.If it has always been like this since the relationship started tell him nicely you're dumping him.Hope I helped

  • 1 decade ago

    Get Out Of It

    Life Is To Short

  • 1 decade ago

    1. Figure out what it is that makes you unhappy.

    2. Tell your partner that you are unhappy and why you are unhappy.

    3. Try to work things out. If you can't work it out and be happy....

    4. Find someone else.

  • 1 decade ago

    If talking doesn't help anymore, it's a sign to LEAVE and find happiness somewhere else. Give him the 'It's not you, it's me' scenario.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sometimes you shouldn't think so hard about things. Do you have any reason to stay? Are you afraid of the unknown? Do you feel tied to him? Have too much time invested? Better the devil you know?

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