Great love but so-so sex, great sex but no love?

Seeing sex has become a commodity in relationships, basically just one more step to do. If you felt you found that person, and they were all you looked for. Smart, great conversations, polite, compassionate, witty. talking with them for hours seem like minutes. Before you could ask them, they were on it as if they... show more Seeing sex has become a commodity in relationships, basically just one more step to do. If you felt you found that person, and they were all you looked for. Smart, great conversations, polite, compassionate, witty. talking with them for hours seem like minutes. Before you could ask them, they were on it as if they could read your mind. But, sex with them was rather like watching paint dry. Nothing to brag about. Or you met someone who was like an adventure in bed, you never knew where you would go next. And there seem to be no end to the height you could achieve. Having sex with them all day seem like only and hour. But outside the bedroom trying to find activities to do together and something to talk about was like looking for a needle in a stack of needles. Who would you want to be with IF those were your ONLY 2 choices? Great interaction and bland sex, or great sex and no outside the bed interaction?
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