Help? How do I get him to help?

How can I get my boyfriend to help clean the house? He won't do the dishes, he won't vacuum, he barely will take out the trash, after a few days of telling him, let alone clean up messes and straighten up. I cook supper every night while he gets to sit on the computer all day and all night. He wont' go to bed til 4 in the morning, than sleeps til 3. I didn't mind doing these things during the year, he works and goes to school, while I have internet classes, and I do the housework, and cook supper. But now that summer is here, I still have to do my regular jobs, without school, while he gets to sit on the computer all the time. He dosent work or have school during the summer. Yet I still have to do everything around here!

any advice!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    just remember the time is of the essence..he'll find his way...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You have yourself to blame for training him to do nothing for all this time, and now all of a sudden you want him to change completely. you should have had him helping you all along. He is used to doing nothing and will probably continue to do so

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