My pregnant girlfriend left me, is it the hormones?
So, my pregnant girlfriend which I have known since the second grade all of a sudden started hating me and left me. We have had arguments here and there and I have played my part but is that enough to just leave me like that with no explanation? We were suppose to move in together, ma bey thats why? Well then why didn't she just tell me. People are saying that its the pregnancy hormones? This sucks, I feel lost without her. I'm afraid that I might lose love for her while she takes this time. Not that I don't care but I'm hurting and It's making me start to not like her. Come on women, help me out :)
Just want to let you know that I am still trying and not giving up. She won't answer my phone calls and I went to her house to give her flowers and told her I loved her and I'm not giving up and what can I do, she said "Just leave me alone" took the flowers and closed the door. Before this happened, it seemed as if everything I did made her upset. I asked her to tell me about it. She said she didn't want to talk about it. I tried taking her out to a nice restaurant and all sorts of stuff. She told me how happy it made her but then the next thing I know, shes gone. Ma bey I should have given her more space.
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You are both immature. Stop having children and grow up.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Being unmarried and I'm guessing young and pregnant is scary and hard. All women are crazy and emotional while pregnant, but her situation is especially hard. Try not to think badly of her, and be there for you whenever she needs you or comes back. She will. Be understanding, you are about to have a child together, now is a time for maturity. You need to be all about supporting her right now. If she needs some time alone, then take that time apart to get yourself ready for parenthood.
- kevaLv 44 years ago
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- Quonx.Lv 61 decade ago
Is this like her to up and leave? Has she been storming out for a drive lately? It could be just the hormones, but this behavior could be a way to punish you. Call everyone you know. Like her girlfriends, family.