Is it better to have a relationship with a man who is a good person but you do not find sexually attractive?

Or to have a relationship with a man who you find very attractive but is a bit of an ********?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well the best is to find a good person to whom you are sexually attracted. If you don't have any sexual attraction, I worry about the future of the relationship. On the other hand, too much sexual attraction is not always a good thing - you may overlook negatives. Maybe someone who is a good person and you have enough sexual attraction to build on is a good bet.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would highly recommend that u find someone who u r attracted to and a good person. If u cant find both try the one with a good personality first.

  • 1 decade ago

    Why don't you quit being desperate and find a man who is a good person and that you are sexually attracted to?

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that if you have a relationship with a good man, later on you might find him sexually attractive, but not vice-versa...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You mean to tell me that you can't find a man that's both a good person and sexually attractive? Hey, I'm sittin' right here, ya know...LOL.

  • 1 decade ago

    Neither is good. There are attractive guys out there who are positively good people.

    The problem is that when some women find a positive and attractive guy, they usually assume he is gay. So he usually goes home and plays videogames lol. Then you never see him.

  • Jared
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Always go with personality over looks. Looks dont last.

    I can't help but look at my grandparents who have been married for half a century. They're in their 80's and I can't help but wonder how do they stand each other. Their skin is wrinkled, saggy, they can barely see/walk. They wake up in each other's arms each morning. They watch each other put on their retainers....

    How can they stand each other for 50 years.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Depends on which characteristic you would rather put up with. I can't stand an A** so I would go with good person.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That's a tough one.

    However, whats the difference between a friend and a wife/husband. Sex...

    There it is.

    I would fine someone that turns your dials.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you have to weigh it I think

    points for every good thing

    you should be at least slightly attracted to him or don't do it

    good person is great, yet see if that will keep you happy long term

    Source(s): opinion, these days, we have CHOICES, it has to be worth it for both people, or one em leaves and that is mostly good
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