Why is masturbaiting addicting?
I have a problem. i cant stop. every day I do it and im, honestly, sick of it. i think its wrong when i get back to my senses. please, i nead good advise. i really wanna stop.
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Both men and women may desire sex but only men need sex. This is one of the crucial differences between men and women, a fact that very few men and fewer women know.
In every man’s body there are two small organs called “seminal vesicles”. Only men have them and, although they have a profound effect on men’s behaviour, men have no conscious awareness of their existence or function. The seminal vesicles are probably the most neglected organs in discussions of human sexuality.
Each seminal vesicle looks like a little wrinkled sausage about 5cm (2″) long. Inside there is a coiled tube. Their function is to produce seminal fluid, which is produced continually. Since they never cease their production, the seminal vesicles keep filling up after each ejaculation, and as they fill they swell. The swelling is accompanied by elongation, just as a coiled garden hose tends to stretch out when filled with water. The seminal vesicles cannot release any of the seminal fluid other than by ejaculation.
Closely surrounding the seminal vesicles is a network of pressure sensitive nerves called the “vesicle plexus”. This vesicle plexus is connected through the spinal cord to a mid-brain region known as the “hypothalamus”. In the hypothalamus of men there is a uniquely male structure of specialised “neural circuits” that appear to be specifically designed to trigger sexual arousal in response from impulses received from the vesicle plexus. As each seminal vesicle swells it presses against and starts to put pressure on the nerves of the vesicle plexus that sends a message to the hypothalamus.
When the hypothalamus is energised to a sufficient level by nerve impulses from the vesicle plexus, to effect an ejaculation of seminal fluid, it causes testosterone to be released into the bloodstream. This triggers the man’s conscious awareness of being in a state of sexual need.
At low levels of pressure in his seminal vesicles, activation of the man’s hypothalamus barely triggers enough sexual arousal to intrude upon his consciousness - it stays in the back of his mind, so to speak, but, after minutes or hours have elapsed since his previous ejaculation, the pressure in the man’s refilled seminal vesicles again reaches such a level that the release of testosterone into his bloodstream is accelerated.
At a certain point, the accelerating rate of release of the male hormone into a man’s bloodstream affects his conscious mind in a uniquely male way. It has the psychological effect of sensitising the man’s attention to any and all of the sexual stimuli in his environment. Consciously, the man involuntarily finds himself being intensely and powerfully distracted by sexual thoughts and fantasies as well as having his attention and interest being drawn magnetically to the females in his vicinity.
Because of his possession of the uniquely male seminal vesicles, the uniquely male structure of the hypothalamus and the uniquely male hormone testosterone, the male alone is subject throughout adult life to a compellingly distractive and recurrent sexual cycle of involuntary arousal, bodily excitation and partial ejaculation followed by temporary quiescence.
Only evacuation of the seminal vesicles by ejaculation will acquiesces a man’s sexual desire and within seconds after the ejaculation a man has no sexual desire at all. Ejaculation can occur through copulation, masturbation or wet dreams. Only in very rare circumstances can semen escape through the urine.
A man with distended seminal vesicles does not experience a conscious need to ejaculate seminal fluid. He merely is aroused and sensitised to what are, for him, “sexual stimuli”. It is at the point of a man’s conscious sexual arousal that his sexual fantasies, generated by his individual sexual “orientation”, and his unique cultural conditioning combine forces and intervene to determine a man’s choice of behavioural responses, to his sexual stimuli, which for him, will be most likely to result in gratification of his sexual fantasies and satisfaction of his sexual appetite. That is why whatever constitutes sexual stimulus for one man, can leave another man coldly indifferent.
It needs to be stressed that a man is not compelled to rape in this situation, but is placed in a situation where he is constantly thinking of ways to acheive sexual release. Social, cultural and environmental conditioning along with a multitude of other factors must come into play before a man could even contemplate rape. Almost all men can channel this need for sexual release into an appropriate form of behaviour. A man in a loving and monogamous relationship will naturally and unconsciously seek to initiate sexual intercourse with his partner. This is called marriage not rape.
A man’s recurrent involuntary urge for sexual activity can hit him at any moment - regardless of his ongoing activity, his situation or the availability of female company. For example it can happen while he is walking down the street, attending a finance lecture, watching a movie or driving a car. It is very frustrating for a man not to be able to have sexual intercourse when sexual arousal is activated. Men do not willingly consider masturbation to be an acceptable alternative to sexual intercourse.
Men can be sexually oriented towards women they pass in the street, even though the man knows nothing about the women’s personalities, ideas of right or wrong, or their mental capabilities - men are attracted by the mere sight of the female form itself. This is due to thousands of years of evolution. The urge to ensure the survival of the species is not conducive with the emotional demands of the modern relationship.
On the other hand, whilst women might admire a man’s body, there is no physiological mechanism of sexual release to be triggered in women by what women see. A woman’s sexual desire is generated consciously by herself in her own mind and, unlike men, women can go through their whole life without ever having the need for a sexual thought. Women find it difficult or impossible to understand the predictable, insistent, often unromantic, subservient and indiscriminate aspects of men’s sex driven advances and therefore usually express anger or contempt for them.
- Sexy dudeLv 51 decade ago
most importantly, you MUST realize that masturbation is NOT wrong. you got brainwashed to believe that masturbation is wrong.
there is nothing wrong about pleasing oneself, just like when you are hungary, you eat food, when you want sugar, you eat some candies, etc. even animals masturbate
you must tell yourself that masturbation is not a wrong thing to do, almost everyone does it, even those who tell you that it is wrong, they have done it many times themselves.
you are a normal person with a healthy sex drive, so you can't possibly stop your body producing hormones that will make you feel horny and want to masturbate.
if you want to stop, you can cut off your testicles, that way will stop you doing it forever, you will lose all the sexual drive afterwards, but you are not gonna do it
masturbation is good for you know what you like sexually, it relaxes you; in extreme cases, it can prevents crimes. why do some male criminals rape girls? it is because they didn't masturbate before they committed the crime. if you stop masturbating, maybe you will get too horny, so you may feel like a rapist yourself
enjoy when you can, sooner or later, your body won't produce all the hormones that you have now, then you won't feel the need to jerk off daily any more
- 1 decade ago
i cant stop craking up with the above reply from absolut. anyhow, back to the question.... why do u want to stop mate! it is good to get the pressure off ur head by doing it often. there is nothing wrong in doing it. it's a gods gift and use it often. but don't over do it like 6-7 times a day as i know some who do so. u will be losing a lot of energy if u do so and occasionly sperm count =)
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
It is addicting because it feels good. Why do you want to stop, it is healthy, it can prevent you from having certain type of cancer, and it will help in sex. Even if you do stop, your going to have to do it it at least once to get a girl pregnant.
- 1 decade ago
You must concentrate on othet things like math equations and hairy chicks. This way your brain focus will divert to surreal settings and abstract murals. In by doing so, you become so confused that you forget you even have something to tug on. It works for me. Hope it helps.
- 4 years ago
I don't think your addicted... compared to my 5-6 times a day and use the restroom at least once a day during class...your normal....grrrr
- 4 years ago
Premature ejaculation is caused by specific things that you do before and during sex. Most of the time without even realizing it. Read here https://tr.im/SY7fu
Premature ejaculation is not some gene you're born with, the result of your penis size or a part of your personality that you can never change.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Congratulations that you have found something wrong.
That is a new beginning. Go out, do exercises. Keep your mind on other things, and restrict your self.
Get hold on yourself.
Wish you best.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
it sets off your brains endorphins, these are your bodies happy drugs, and its similar to taking pills for that, its not wrong, its addictive though, its basically harmless if it doesnt stop you from doing the things you need to do.