Do women really have something against the big guys?

i'm a big guy...so why is it that whenever i talk to a girl, the second they get a good look at me, their attitude towards me changes. i don't have a six-pack and i'm not ripped...i am losing the weight and working to have a healthier lifestyle, but why is it that on first glance, i am seen as... show more i'm a big guy...so why is it that whenever i talk to a girl, the second they get a good look at me, their attitude towards me changes. i don't have a six-pack and i'm not ripped...i am losing the weight and working to have a healthier lifestyle, but why is it that on first glance, i am seen as something not even worth consideration? are the efforts i am undertaking not good enough?

do all women use the 'brad pitt standard of appearance' when looking for a man?
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