Are you in a "platonic" marriage?

Hubbie and I have been married for eight years. We have two kids. I think we are in some kind of "platonic" stage in our marriage. Our sex life is ziltch. At first, several years ago, we tried hard to keep the sparks going but slowly it has disappeared where we have sex maybe once every two months or... show more Hubbie and I have been married for eight years. We have two kids. I think we are in some kind of "platonic" stage in our marriage. Our sex life is ziltch. At first, several years ago, we tried hard to keep the sparks going but slowly it has disappeared where we have sex maybe once every two months or so. Neither of us wants it this way, it just seems like it is just too much work to keep it going. When we fall into bed at night all we are looking for is sleep. We love each other bunches but now it's more like a close friendship. Have you ever been through this? If so, were you able to change it? How?
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