How do I cure my shyness?

I'm a really shy persons. I'm 19, a virgin , and never had a girlfriend. I'm always avioding social situations. I feel really anxious when a girl talks to me. I have a big problem looking girls in the eye even though they tell me I'm a good looking guy with pretty eyes. Lately I've been feeling... show more I'm a really shy persons. I'm 19, a virgin , and never had a girlfriend. I'm always avioding social situations. I feel really anxious when a girl talks to me. I have a big problem looking girls in the eye even though they tell me I'm a good looking guy with pretty eyes. Lately I've been feeling really lonley, unworthy, and depressed. I have few REAL friends and I don't do anything on the weekend. I really want to have a girlfriend and be in a relationship instead of feeling like I'm all alone in life. Can someone help me.
Update: I blush a lot which is weird cause I'm black
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