Do most men feel threatened if their woman like toys in the bedroom?

Personally I like it--However, The only problem is I do not want to just watch, I want to be a part of it. Do men like this in their relationship or not?


We have a variety and it is never the same--ALSO we do NOT use them EVERY time. She has never had an orgasm with her toy, but she sure has em with me--kind priming the pump if you will.

12 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Best Answer

    that depends on the person..i personally welcome it also

    but in todays society many men are feeling that they can give a woman all of the pleasure they need ...which is not always the they feel like they are not "man enough" to please a woman

  • 1 decade ago

    Look into not so intimidating toys that the two of you can use together! Things like "C-Rings" and small toys like "Bullets" are great couples toys and can enhance the fun in the bedroom!

  • 1 decade ago

    What is the old saying? "He who has the most toys wins". This then should be a "Win Win" situation. Relax, and learn about Your inhibitions and self doubts. Personally I get along quite well with the notion that My Partner is enjoying Herself.

  • J
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I love it when a woman shares her toys, especially when she used them on me.

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  • 1 decade ago

    To answer it simply: No.

    There are plenty of times in my relationships that I have simply wanted to masturbate, so why should women not be allowed to do the same?

  • MumOf5
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Well, my best friend's man has no problem with it. Mine wouldn't either if I actually wanted to do that. So that's two who wouldn't feel threatened.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't feel threatened. If it makes a woman's pleasure that much better, then I'm all for it.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think it can be a challenge for the men to please their woman better then the toy can.

  • Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    My boyfriend has never had a problem with it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Only stupid men who are clueless about women's sexuality and have penis issues would have a problem with it.

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