Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

why can't girls?

Why can't girls date one guy at a time. Why do they gotta date like 2 or 3 guys at a time. and not tell you about it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Not everyone does that. Some people like to play the field.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    This is a bizzare thing that has evolved over the last few decades, interesting because the "sexual revolution" has spawned an attitude even more restrictive than it was before. You see, it was once commonly accepted that you refrained from sex but were free to date a number of people and gain some insight into what types of people you got along with. Now sex is an accepted (even pressured) norm but along with that came a Taliban-like attitude that prohibits you from getting to know a variety of people. Now you have to declare fidelity to whoever you're first attracted to, you're off the market, committed to follow that one attachment through to some bitter end, go through a breakup and assign fault for why it didn't work when it's simply a fact that most relationships just don't work out because there was no thought put into them in the first place. Maybe if you could accept that it's normal to accommodate your urges by masturbating, you could free yourselves from this nasty restriction. Until then, you're going to be whining about what constitutes cheating because you're trying to act "faithful" without any real basis for doing so. It's just wildly judgemental, self-defeating and downright stupid.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, girls don't want to put all there eggs in one basket. Depending on the age you have to experience life first before you settle down. some one who is younger like 16, 18 , and19 there so much you need to do and figure out, in your 20's your still finding yourself. But as you get older than you can work on one(1) person in your life. someone whose on the same path as you or both of you can build together. But the ladies needs to and tell you what is going on early on. THAT'S WHERE SHES WRONG AT! Always be honest. So see It's about life and making the right choices. Us ladies need to know what's the options before selecting one.

  • 1 decade ago

    i guess cheating/two timing an all that works both ways so its not just the girls who do it, its the guys too.

    p.s if a girl decides to cheat sorry but obviously shes not gonna tell you..shes jsut being rude and doing it behind your back rather than not doing it in the 1st place since shes with you.

    hope you understood what i meant :S

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  • 1 decade ago

    idk what you're talking about, but girls can date only one guy at a time...i do. we may be confused about guys and our relationships sometimes, but we're not all stupid or whatever and date more than one guy. but if some girls you know date more than one guy at a time and not tell you is because they either have an ego, or don't want to tell you and hurt your feelings

  • 1 decade ago

    Not all girls are like that. Most of the girls I know are one-at-a-time types. And we don't believe in e-relationships either.

  • 1 decade ago

    Uh... NO. YOU'RE COMPLETELY WRONG! GUYS ARE THE PEOPLE WHO DATE LIKE 2 OR 3 PEOPLE AT A TIME. It depends on the poeple, so stop being sexist.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Some girls do that, but some guys do that also. It is not nice to say that all women do this because of a few sour grapes.

  • Kyle
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Where do you come from? Where I'm from, the guys do that and think they are so sly. Maybe you live on the coast and the women are deciding to do what men have done for years.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    for security reasons... not all girls are like that...some girls cant stand being single so they make sure they always have a back up plan...u should try to avoid those type of girls they are in relationships for the wrong reasons

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