Have you ever paid for sex?

I never have and probably never will...because I only get off on people who want me sexually. But have you? What was it like? Do you get any emotional fulfillment? or just sexual release?

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  • Kedar
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    No, that is the only thing I always got for free. Well, I paid a very high emotional price, sometimes, but that is a different story. But to judge someone for paying for sex is not my qualification. Perhaps some people would only get sex if they pay for it, so who am I to condemn another person?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No, I haven't, but after doing some research into the world of high-class escort services and GLBT sex workers, I would do it in a heartbeat if I found just the right person. But it would have to be someone who loved or at least enjoyed what they did, who wasn't feeling pressured to prostitute themselves because they're broke or pyschologically unwell, and someone who I could establish a connection with, even if it were a shallow one. These people are out there, I know, but they aren't by far the majority, so I might be difficult to find them. If I did it, it probably wouldn't be with anyone who I could "find in the real world" . . . I'd probably find myself a handsome butch lesbian, a transman or transwoman, people who I don't often see locally and get the chance to date.

    As far as the experience went, well, I haven't had it so I can't say, but I imagine that a good, quality hooker knows it's part of his/her/hir job to make me feel that they want me sexually, and I can willingly suspend my disbelief for a while. If I prepared myself mentally for the event, then I think I could completely get some emotional fulfillment from it, albeit definitely not as much as I could get with a real partner. But then again, that's probably the point of it all anyways-you either don't want the emotional attachment, or you are going elsewhere because you don't have or want a partner.

    Ever since I read Pat Califia's book "Public Sex", I've quite changed my mind on the idea of sex workers and paying for sex; various other books from high-class prostitutes and professional doms and subs have influenced me as well, and I think safe, regulated prostitution in a sex-positive environment can be a beautiful thing for those who understand its limits.

    Hope that helps.

  • 1 decade ago

    i have a gay friend that hires escorts and he travells to different cities. he enjoys it yes. as he is very busy with his work and he likes the fact he can pick out the studs he wants and how big they will be down below. etc.. he finds it facinating haveing something new all the time and not the same old thing.

    also straight career men have been doing this for ages. some fly into town need a pretty girl on there arm to take them to places or meetings etc.. and they get to enjoy them in there private places . some people are far to busy to wine and dine a woman and get to know her and all the hoopla that comes with it. they just want to release and have a good time and then be done and gone. without someone hanging on wanting more. its a cut and dry thing for them. no attachment or follow up's later if they dont' want to.

  • 1 decade ago

    I Myself, have never paid for sex or needed to.

    However, as a Master, I have been offered money more times then imaginable to Dominate submissive souls.

    To answer your question- from My own experience, I would derive the most pleasure out of Dominating a soul purely on the fact that it was consensual and a connection was established. And sometimes, pleasure doesnt always come from sex but from other sourses.(ie Dominance over another)

    Some ppl cannot be brought, others, enjoy a price tag on themself.

    Good luckw ith your various answers :-)

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  • 1 decade ago

    Nope never have and never will pay to have sex with someone and if i every got that horney all i had to do is go out to a bar or club and i would have people flirting with me all the time and can get it for free when ever i needed to just go out and waste my money on someone to get me off and the fact i have a loving partner to please me and to be pleased by me i dont need to go out looking or hire a guy to have sex with and plus sex is about love and sharing a special moment with someone you love and care about and one night stands or quick hook ups is just worthless for me as it does nothing for me...

  • gone
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Even though I have spent enough on bar tabs while "in the hunt", I actually haven't paid for "The Act" itself. I think many of us have found that the more we consume that the person next to us becomes more attractive. In that regard, I've made charges on the ol' plastic that have caused me embarrassment more than anything else.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I did. It was my first real "sex" experience with a guy. I was 19 and too afraid to go to bars or cruising places.

    It was terribly emotional. I realized that I "could" have sex with a guy and "enjoyed" it. It was like my "gay test".

    I was embarrassed and felt "dirty".

    This happened only four years ago. I don't regret the experience and have since become more comfortable with myself about being gay - despite my decision to remain "in the closet".

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No one will ever get sex for free .

    If you think of it you will remember that you buyed gifts and flowers and then took vacations and then lost time just to get there, Ahhhhh

    That is all money my man, think of it.

    I even paid my wife to get sex if you counted the candles cost and the sweet words (she is an ex now) looooool, thanks God.

    I will expect 10 points tomorrow.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    No, I never have and never will. I feel the same way as you. I only want to have sex with someone who's attracted to me and wants to have sex with me not for money. If they only want to do it for money I'd much rather go jerk off.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Not intentionally.

    When I was, I think 17, I went to a motel room with a guy who turned out to be a hustler. He took money from my wallet when I was in the shower after we had sex.

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