how can i spice up my relationship? any suggestions?

6 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Be attractive to your man. Try to answer the questions below:

    What do you wear in the bedroom? An old T-shirt or negligee or nothing?

    What do you talk about when you slide into bed? Children, work, bills, or sweet nothing?

    When was the last time you offered him a massage or even a back rub? Last year, last week, never?

    How does your bedroom look like? Messy, nothing to talk about, almost like a boudoir?

    Pick one: The bedroom is a place to (a) sleep (b) be intimate with your partner (c) family room for the night

    by taking the following steps, you can really make a big difference:

    Check your nightwear drawer. Try to add something that he likes. You can both shop online in the privacy of your home so that you buy what you both like and feel comfortable in.

    Think of a pleasant topic every night that you would talk about prior to going to bed. It can be anything other than children, work, bills, and any other problems.

    Explore all the massage options for couples.

    Give your bedroom a makeover.

    Change your attitude about your relationship with your man. Be the one that he dreams about.

    Spoil your partner for one day: This is how it works. example: Each Saturday, I do whatever my wife wants me to do and I also think of other ways to spoil her. She does the same on Sundays. We might change the days if there is a long weekend or holiday or if something else is happening but one day a week we just try to make each other feel special. And it can get pretty wild and is a lot of fun. So it is up to you how imaginative we can get (e.g. I had to learn how to put nail polish on my wife's toes since I promised to do anything that she asked me to).

    GoOd luck!


  • Ashley
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Depends on what you want to change honey. If its the lingerie, room color or something that can entice you to the mood of love....

  • 1 decade ago

    why not,but relationship with whom.any suggestion.

  • 1 decade ago

    Go on a vacation.. some place where you've never been to. Be spontaneous.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes thyme and rosemary are nice

  • 1 decade ago

    do it with the lights on

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