can someone please give me there opinion on this?
Im curious ok.But is first time sex all that great?I heard it hurts and now Im a little scared of the thought.
- Jim BLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
It depends on how old you are. If you're under the age of 18 it's not only extremely painful for about a month, it also takes away some of your IQ. That's why most girls that jump in the sack with lots of guys are kinda' stupid. If they weren't they wouldn't be jumping in the sack with a bunch of guys, right?
If you're over the age of 18, which is at a time in a girls life when her body is developed enough to properly produce a baby without a lot of complications, the pain level is still quite high but will only last about a week. As far as IQ is concerned, it will not drop if you are in a realtionship with your partner for at least 1 year before doing the deed. Any less than 1 year and you risk losing at least 20 IQ points.
- amiaskanLv 41 decade ago
If it's done with a partner who genuinely loves you and wants you to be as content and pleasured as he, it won't hurt at all; it will feel right. Which is why you should give great thought as to who the first person you want give yourself to (and hopefully the only) - because it truly is a gift, the gift of your body. Funny, the movie the notebook comes to mind, as does titanic. Your body is precious, don't think of sex as a first time thing or whatever, like practice makes perfect. It doesn't . A thousand times with the wrong people doesn't make it better. But with the right person, who looks at you lwith awe and wonder like you were a Christmas present to be opened? What's that song? Your body is a wonderland? Treasure it darling. When the right man comes along, it won't hurt, it will truly be a pleasure and you'll understand what it was that was intended.
- khatzzzLv 41 decade ago
It really depends. but as long as you're doing it with the right person at the right time then enjoy that feeling.. It wouldn't hurt as much...
- Silly GirlLv 51 decade ago
It can be painful if you are small, doctors have equipment that they can loan you to help eliminate the pain. It truly helps.