what does it mean when a guy tells you he's not ready to be in a relationship and doesn't want you to get hurt

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  • 1 decade ago
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    That he's not ready to be in a relationship and doesn't want you to get hurt.

  • 1 decade ago

    First off, not wanting a relationship means he does'nt want you as a regular girlfriend. Hes probably happy with your body and might like touching it or hes happy with what you might do to him. He does'nt want you to get hurt is a clish'e line we all say, when were happy with sex but dont see you as a full time partner. Sorry to be thruthfull, but you did ask for definite meanings. You will probably find hes not actually single but has a full time girlfriend and your just the other girl. Get out before you actually do get hurt...Pop C

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It means that he really cares for you. So much that he doesn't want to deal with problems if you guys would get together and break up. He might of just got out of a serious relationship and doesn't feel like getting in another one too.

  • Cedar
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Hmmm - I think, that he's compassionate first of all and really cares about other people's feelings. Maybe he doesn't see you that way, or maybe he just honestly isn't ready for a relationship and is freaked out by the whole deal. Hard to say for sure, really - maybe he doesn't even know which it is. Good luck to you!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    usually this means that he may have been in a recent relationship than eneded badly and he's not ready for anything but rebound hook-ups which are not exactly fun. this also means that he does genuinly carre about you and may want something with you but knows that if it happens now you may end up geting hurt because of his past expirience and he doesn't want this for you

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just that...that he isn't ready for a relationship, which is very mature of him instead of leading someone on, and cheating. If he isn't ready to be commited , why should he be with anyone.

  • Niko
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It means exactly what he says. Just walk away and get over him because you don't need a guy like that around. If he doesn't want you then just accept it. Do not stick around for him to use you.

  • 1 decade ago

    He is not ready to make a commitment, he doesn't wanna get all into the monogomous relationship thing, and then end up hurting you.

    Or...

    Although he has been having fun dating you, he just doesn't like you enough to commit to you.

    All in all, he doesn't want to hurt you, so don't let him, and let it go.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It means that you should have NO expectations. He may just want you for some sensual feast and then move on. You need to be aware of that.

  • 1 decade ago

    SORRY- point blank he's not feeling you as a girlfreind and wants to break it off so you need to not like him anymore and move on to someone that will be more understanding to you...

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