Sad GIRLFRIEND?

When my girlfriend calls me and we talk on the phone for 30 minutes she sounds happy, but near the end of our conversation like in the last 5 minutes she always sounds sad and i dont know why? Do you know why she would be sad?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Because she misses you, most women say they miss their boyfriends when they get off the phone and feel sad it's normal. The problem comes if she starts getting clingy and when you meet up with her she doesn't want you to leave and tries to get you to stay for just 5 more minutes that ends up turning into and hour. If that happens she's insecure and needy.

  • 1 decade ago

    She is all happy in the beginning because she loves you and is happy to hear your voice, it calms her and soothes her. At the end of the conversation she may sound down and sad because she doesnt want this to end. She could talk to you for hours on end and be happy,knowing that your showing her love by being there for her and talking to her. Just when your conversation is coming to an end, let her know how much you love her or care about her, I dont know where your at in your relationship or even if love is spoken out loud. But remind her when you will speak again and she will be excited to know when she will be able to hear your voice again. If that does not seem to help as her ".... Is something wrong, because you sound sad, is there anything you want to talk about or that I can do for you." See if that helps. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like your girlfriend doesn't like to get off the phone with you. thats how i used to feel about my boyfriend everytime we got off the phone. i was sad because i like talking to him. Try spending more time with with your girl or try to talk to her a little longer on the phone. But it sounds like she just likes talking to you and hates getting off the phone with you. Also try talking to your girl about it ask her why she always sound sad. Goodluck

  • 1 decade ago

    She doesn't want to end the conversation. Your voice makes her happy and she doesn't want to hang up. or you said something to upset her near the end? who knows.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe she's sad because she doesn't want to end the conversation. Or, maybe you said something to offend her and didn't realize it.

  • talk to her about it. or maybe she's just sad that the conversation is ending.

    Source(s): thats kind of what my sister is like when she talking to her boyfriend she's all happy but then when they are about to say bye to each other she gets kind of sad.
  • 1 decade ago

    she's probly just sad that or feels like you dont want to talk anymore. I think that you should ask her to find out why, only she can answer that question correctly.

  • 1 decade ago

    Cuz, you are about to stop talking, so it makes her sad, since she wants to talk to you. If that's the case, you are a lucky guy. Keep her.

  • 1 decade ago

    That is typical of long distance relationships. If you are in one then worry not. If not...then you probably are doing something wrong or, something is bothering her. assess yourself or try to find out what the matter is with her.

  • 1 decade ago

    lol maybe because the convo is coming to an end...??? lol i don't know, babe, it could be anything, just ask her, say you sound sad, are you ok? girls like to talk things out, but you hafta be the one to initiate it, we're stupid like that

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