loving some that don't love you?

What do you do when you love someone and they don't love you back. after you just broke up with your old boyfriend and they still have feelings for you and you don't love him and you love someone that loves you friend?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    ultimately its not worth it. it will cause you to much stress and pain. if they dont like u back it can be a big problem. just go find someone who will

    good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm in the exact same situation! And personally I’m just taking it day by day. I told my ex that I hope someday in the future we could be friends but there was a reason we weren’t together anymore...we just didn't get along. And as for the new guy, you should consider talking to him about it, when you get the courage. There's really nothing you can do if he doesn't return the same feelings though. I wish you all the best. Everything happens for a reason, so it will all come together in the end:)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think you should realize that you may be better spending some time alone to enable yourself to figure out what it is you do want. It's okay to be alone. You don't have to settle for either guy. It's not an 'either or' situation. You broke up with someone that you didn't want to be with. That doesn't mean you have to 'pin all your hopes' on someone that doesn't want to be with you. Allow your friend to be with the guy she's with without any interference from you. You owe her that loyalty.

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