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Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingAdolescent · 1 decade ago

my best friend thinks im a loser......?

1.well, we are 13 and sometimes i think she just uses me for excuses to go out and party. i dont go out a lot.

2.she plays soccer and her granddad is a racer and so is her dad (but the dad isnt quite good) and she races a little.i play golf really really well and i enjoy it but when i told her about it she said that is sooo losery. and she puts me down when i tell her about it.

3.she says she is very popular and the reason she is is because of her cousin.

4.she is kinda chubby and she keeps eating garbage like 2 big packs of fries, 3 ice cream cones, etc. when i told her to stop she got pissed at me and when she started gaining weight again she got sooo mad at me!

she is just soooo grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

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  • Jim B
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Best Answer

    Any kid that says you're a loser because you are good at something is only saying that because they are jealous. It's as simple as that.

    If she played golf and you were a really good racer, she would say racing is losery. That's just how insecure people do things. They want to feel like they're in control so the easiest thing they can think to do is to put other people down and try to make them feel bad.

    My advice to you would be to keep playing golf regardless of what any other kid says, and if your friend keeps acting like an idiot, kick her and her three ice cream cones to the curb.

    By the way, being popular isn't what it's cracked up to be. Sometimes girls are so popular they end up pregnant before they turn 16.

    Just think of popularity like this:

    Be popular until you graduate high school, and after that work at menial jobs because your school grades were so bad you couldn't get into a college...OR...study hard and get good grades and practice golf and get a golf scholarship that will pay for your college education. After that you can either become a professional golfer or you can become a professional anything and live a nice secure comfortable life until you are 90 years old.

    Imagine being really popular until you're 18 and then having to work at menial jobs until you're 90.

  • kacey
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Sounds like a big pain! First of all, golf is totally not losery--I wish I knew how to play! It looks really hard to me, and I think it's cool that you're good at it. There are golf teams and stuff at most colleges--maybe you can be on one, if you want to!

    She doesn't sound like a very good friend if she's putting you down all the time--friends shouldn't put friends down! I know it can be hard, but I'd suggest getting a new best friend--maybe someone from your golf team (if your school has one), or maybe someone you don't know all that well right now but would like to know better. She sounds like she has low self-esteem and puts people down all the time so she can feel better about herself, and there's no reason for you to hang around for that!

  • Kasja
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Sounds to me like she is a jealous friend, and not really a good friend at all, Have you tried telling her exactly how you feel?? You might want to try.. If she gets mad ect then obviously her friendship is not worth it, you don't need to be friends with someone who treats you like sh*t. She also sounds like she is very insecure, when you tell her things like stop eating whatever let her know your just looking out for her..When she got mad because she started gaining weight, she was probably hurt to realize the truth in knowing that you were right and she should have stopped...

    Try talking to her that is the best thing to do, you will know how good of a friend she is after you talk to her..

    good lcuk!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Your have a sucky so-called-bestfriend.My bestfriend never treats me like that and we never take advantage of eachother.We have gone through everything and if she does call me a name she is just playing around.Im 13 too.Your bestfriend sounds like a spoiled brat.I would stop talking to her completely becouse it honestly does sound like she is using you.You need to make some new friends or something cuz she is a FAKE.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You should find another friend.Good friends don't put each other down like that.Apparently she's not a good friend to you because she keeps puttin you down!!!!!You need a good friend that helps you boost your confidence.......

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Then she is not your best friend. She using you. Ditch her and find friends who deserve to have you as a friend. She IS the loser. So go find good real friends who don't treat you like crap.

  • 1 decade ago

    find a new best friend. friends arent supposed to put you down.

  • 1 decade ago

    Find another friend. good friends don't put you down they help you feel good.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    she doesnt sound like a friend..... if i was u i would find some new friends and "dump" that "friend".....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    are you sure she is your best friend? i think not!

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