do u think i can move on?

i liked this girl for a pretty long time now. she used to like me but it was only cuz she felt bad for me. even after i told her not to. ive tryed many times to move one but sumthin keeps tellin me that i should like her and wont let go of her. wen i try to find sumone else all the other girls i think are hot seem to look like this girl. just about every girl i see reminds me of her. and the ones that dont look like her i end up comparing to her. when i see sumone who reminds me of her i cant stop looking at them because they make me feel closer to her.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Hello, I'm sorry for this painful sintuation your going through, your not the only one I'm dealing with the same thing you got. You should be able to move on but It may take a year for you to heal from what happenings. Just BELIVE you can do it. Good luck :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ok first you have to come to terms with the fact that she has moved on. you have to learn how to move on too. think of this as an opportunity to move on and meet new people. i know its hard to move on, but you have to try, it may not happen right away, but it will. try to think of the positives. you can now meet someone else, maybe take it slow and get to know the person and make sure that that person really does care about you. so cheer up, one day you'll find that girl of your dreams! good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    You can move on, you just need to accept that nothing more will happen with that one girl.

    The reason you cant move on is because you hold on to false hope although you know that nothing is going to happen.

    Its a matter of acceptance.It hurts, its very painful but with time you will find someone else.

  • 1 decade ago

    You can move on. We all can move on. You just need total faith in yourself. Think of all the bad things about her; how she only loved you out of sympathy; or a bad physical feature. That will make you really get over her.

    Source(s): common sense
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Trust me once you move on it feels a lot better.. i have recently liked a girl and moved on.. its hard i know but once you get through its great even though occasionally you might think about her...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    your heart will move on in time. its best not to date other girls right now when you have another woman in your heart and mind, its not fair to anyone else you meet.

  • 1 decade ago

    eat a whole bunch of chocolate and cry your heart out. or you could just talk to her. or go for someone completly different from her. good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    well you really like her. i mean you should move on before you become like way to obsessed. but its all your opinion :]] good luck!!

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to move on--and I'm sure you can.

  • zen522
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    move on

    Source(s): I believe in talking and being straight forward You only lose if you don't take the chance
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