Is he using me?!?

He is a new exchange student 17 years old, and im 16.

he is very nice and over the past couple of weeks we have gotten close. he waits for me after class, stares during class, makes jokes, likes to tease me and most of all seems to enjoy my company!

This past 2 weeks he has been taking an online course and asked if i wanted to help him! i said sure and we kind of both did the work...

he told me about an essay and i offered to help... i wrote it...

he again asked if i wanted to help him with an essay, he said i dont have to if i dont want to... but i agreed because i wanted to be nice!

is he just using me or is this a way for us to get closer?


6 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
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    Personally i think its a way of getting close cuz he didnt pressure u to do it (which is a good sign) and he told u if u didnt want to u didnt have to.

    So i think u should keep making little dates and do things together cuz he seems like a nice guy to me *A Keeper*

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    *Much Love* **God Bless**

  • 1 decade ago

    The big problem with girls like you, and there is nothing really wrong with it, you love to be needed and helpful.

    Thats all well and good, but there are people out there, that are users, and will take advantage of your good nature.

    If you are asking yourself this question, then you must be feeling it.

    I suggest, you cut back on your aid to him, and see how he reacts. If he doesn't change towards you, then you will know, he iwasn't using you, but if he does change, then you will know the truth.

  • 1 decade ago

    mabe he just needs help and you were nice and he may like you also. I would set around and think and then if you wonder, ask him

  • 1 decade ago

    Try saying "no" once and see what his reaction is. At this point, it doesn't sound like it based on your description.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he soudns interested, I dont think he is using you, but if you feel that way stand up for your self, and dont do his work!

  • 1 decade ago

    don't help him and see if he still wants to be close... :D

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