Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingAdolescent · 1 decade ago

I got a serious question?

PLZ dont post stupid answers I guess im in denial because I was sexualy abused.ok to make a long story short I dont want to get into the whole thing but basically I was damn I cant even say it now but my clothes were pulled off he was much bigger on top of my I tried screaming he yelled told me no one would care or hear me I tried hitting him pushing him off of my but he was to heavy on my small body I stared crying just laying there couldldnt breath because he was on top of my it was so horrible than I felt a pain well you can guess what that was but I've never been able to remeber anything after that point it all went black I just went limp and its like I feel asleep but I wasnt asleep because I was still hearing things barly but couldnt see or move did my brain just shut it out was and am I still traumatized is is that normal when you are when that happens or whatever? I've never really understood my parents at time said dont let guys touch you no one ever believed me

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  • momof3
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    Sounds like what you are saying is you were raped. You need to report this to a school counselor or trusted adult if your parents arent listening. It is very traumatic and there are people willing to help if you ask.

  • 1 decade ago

    yeaaaaaa about the last thing you said, i couldnt understand this:

    PLZ dont post stupid answers I guess im in denial because I was sexualy abused.ok to make a long story short I dont want to get into the whole thing but basically I was damn I cant even say it now but my clothes were pulled off he was much bigger on top of my I tried screaming he yelled told me no one would care or hear me I tried hitting him pushing him off of my but he was to heavy on my small body I stared crying just laying there couldldnt breath because he was on top of my it was so horrible than I felt a pain well you can guess what that was but I've never been able to remeber anything after that point it all went black I just went limp and its like I feel asleep but I wasnt asleep because I was still hearing things barly but couldnt see or move did my brain just shut it out was and am I still traumatized is is that normal when you are when that happens or whatever? I've never really understood my parents at time said dont let guys touch you no one ever believed me

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I sorry to hear that no one believes but believe it would be in you best interest like everyone else said to go to the police. Also talk to your parents again. It might not be that they don't believe but that they don't want to admit what happened to you, then you should be the one to put it out there and tell them "look this happened to me what are you going to do to help me?"You can't let this guy get away with it he deserves to be put into jail. Who knows who he'll go after next stop him if you can. You don't want to be looking over your shoulders every time to make sure he's not there.Also see a clinic or your doctors to make sure you don't have any STD. I know it sounds hard and embarrassing but remember you did nothing wrong.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm so sorry that you had to experience this. I'm not quite sure what your question is..I think you are asking if it is normal for someone to have reacted the way you did. I haven't been through this but I would only imagine that I would react that way as well. I think what you were describing is your body and minds way of protecting you. You shut down so that you would not have to deal with what was happening. It sounds like it is starting to surface now. I really hope you can find someone to talk to about all of this (a professional, maybe your school counselor? or a teacher or someone.) you really should talk to someone. I'm not sure what the deal is with your parents? They don't believe you? Keep trying to find someone to talk to. And you really should tell the police. You were raped by the sounds of it and as hard as it would be, you could save someone else from having to go through this by telling the police.

    I hope this helps and that you find some help.

    I'm wishing you all the best! Take care of yourself.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You were raped there's no deigning it.

    Someone needs to know as it was not your fault, You didn't ask this to happen to you.

    I am speaking from experience, i was sexually abused as a child by a family member and it went on for around 5 years.

    I never told anyone till i was 19 and with my partner.

    I was made to fill dirty and as if it was my fault but it wasn't, this man robbed me of a voice.

    You really need to tell someone, My parents also told me "never let anyone touch you" but if they had know what had already been happening to me they would have put a stop to it.

    I know how hard it is to tell some but once you do, you'll fill better.

    why not try talking in confidence to childline (UK Based)

    Things will get better once you tell someone.

  • 1 decade ago

    I know what you are going through and I made the mistake of telling as well, it's so crazy how people don't believe you.

    What you should have done is call the police immediately and go through the humiliation of having them collect DNA samples for evidence.

    If he did it once he may just do it again, definitely try to fight but if you don't manage to get away remember the proof of his crime is on you and you just need to get the wheels of justice turning.

    Then you stick to your guns and see that the asshole gets into jail for rape where he can have his own romantic rendezvous with the other inmates.

    Never be afraid that justice won't be done, and don't let your parents tell you it didn't happen when you know it did.

  • Erika
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    You can have him put in jail for rape. You can tell a teacher at school. If you were raped then it would be very hard to get over something like that. You would be scared of everything and everybody. You wouldn't want any guys to touch your body.

  • 1 decade ago

    I too honey was raped at age 11 by a group of men and I am male. It upset and tranized me for a long time. I did get over it. And I am sue you will in time. E mail me if you want to talk about it. I will try to help you.

  • 1 decade ago

    During tramatic events our minds shut things out in order to protect us. Its normal for you not to remember while you are still healing. Over time you will remember bits and pieces of the incident. In the mean time you need to get some form of counceling. Talk to a school official or someone you trust who will listen.

    Source(s): My cousin was raped...because you've more than likely bathed since then it is unlikely that you will be able to take legal action on this man. Protect yourself.
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