Why are her emails getting longer? Why is she so nervous around me?

We have been friends for years, and we have grown into close friends lately. She used to talk to me a lot, and now, she seems really nervous around me. The length of our emails get longer and longer, and the content in the emails is getting more and more personal! We also have tremendous amounts of eye contact between us, rub feet at meetings, and always sit with each other!

14 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Maybe you both like each other but do not want to say anything because you might fear that if one of you do not feel the same then it might make things awkward or ruin what you have.

    It's natural for her to be nervous. I usually feel like that when I like somebody. You start out laughing and talking but then you get to know the person better and you start liking them, that's when you slow down a little. Generally I don't care what people has to say about me but when I'm around the guy I like than I try to watch my mouth because I don't want to say something which might make me look stupid...

    But anyways, I think she likes you and you probably like her too :) !! Good luck !!

  • 1 decade ago

    I think it is very obvious.....She is falling in love with you and maybe she is shy to express it, but she is giving you some hints, like the personal e-mails, the eye contact, the rub feet, so you would take the first step, in case you would feel something for her too. If you do, just say something and take the friendship to the next level. Good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    "rub feet at meetings"? ok ...no judgement, lol....

    It sounds like either she is about to ask you for a relationship, or she just wants it to move to the next level. do you like her? would you consider that? i too was sending longer and longer emails to someone and i didn't realize that i was doing it until i looked at all the emails side by side...it was subconscious. She is becoming more comfortable telling you intimate details but in person she must be thinking about more...Is she shy at all?? outgoing? what is her personality like?

  • lesure
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Why are her emails getting longer? Maybe she has more to say. Duh.

    Why is she so nervous around you? You're not very bright...you'd make me nervous, too. It's called sexual tension.

  • 1 decade ago

    either you are getting to be very very very close friends, or you realized you both may want to be more than friends. i would guess it is the latter. you should take a deep breath, and ask her outright, it may save you another few years of excruciating games when you could have happily been together as lovers.

  • 1 decade ago

    Obviously she's feeling something for you that's more than "just friends", but I think you knew that.

    If you feel the same way, you should make your move now! Sometimes friends can be the best lovers...

  • 1 decade ago

    she has different an more feeling about you. maybe she thinks this is an oppritunity to move up the friendship level to dateing. if you feel the same way make a move. but she has a big crush on you. an maybe its ment to be.

  • 1 decade ago

    Someone wants to start a relationship!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like she is interested in more than your "friendship", if ya know what I mean...

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