I have given up trying to understand why it hurts me so much?
All I really want to know now, is how can I CHANGE the way it makes me feel? I don't want to be this way. Here is my problem:
My husband and I are madly in love, and very happily married. He is a typical male, and visits porn sites from time to time. It literally turns my stomach and makes me very sad that I cannot make him happy enough to not "need" this outlet....This being said...I don't WANT to feel this way...how do I fix it?
(and by the way, I DO put out, and I am darn good at it..)
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You can't control the way you feel... thus the vast amount of medications provided to the American public by Psychietrists. All you can do is talk to him and tell him just how much it bothers you and why it bothers you so much.