"Spare the rod, Spoil the child"?
i Never spank
iii Wish we had not spanked
Or do you hold a different view?
Time: Should Spanking be banned
ABCNews: Support for Spanking: Most Americans Think Corporal Punishment Is OK
Discipline at Home: Spanking: Facts and Fiction
Spanking Harms Children, Especially Girls
To Spank or Not to Spank
Spanking: All points of views
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lapla.. – Exhaust verbal reasoning before spanking..difference between spanking and beating. UK’s laws are overly protective towards minors to the point of connivance that allows impropriety at school to go unchecked.
quack.. – “..a constant battle of wills and determination..Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is hereditary..”
:: Diet, medication, psychotherapy and a conducive environment may alleviate symptoms and root out the source of affliction. Above definition, spanking is certain to certify everyone a psychiatrist, if somewhat dubious.
“..from your kids.”
:: Drats. Really ? Just caught some off the screen by merely looking. Where is me eye ball sanitizer ?
:: Tut tut. Been to one too many school type parties in the City, have we ?
“..difference between spanking and beating, difference between spanking and abuse.”
:: Certainly. Is emotion likely to get the better of theory in application?
herma.. – :: As above sans school style party punishment.
Benny.. – Punishment followed with self reflection by the offender and parent-child discussion.
Debra.. – So long as there are rules to spanking.
Catli.. – Practise discernment on when and where to spank.
Watts.. – Discipline begins with externally enforcement.
zombie.. – Spank and hit without maiming or taking a life.
bLuEe.., Confu.. – Turns out a well adjusted person able to distinguish right from wrong.
ronsw.. – “I usually deserve it..”
:: An opinion with candour. Question to Adults: Is this view ingrained from establishment or an independent thought sans adult or popular influence?
Corporal punishment as a measure of last resort:
♥Butt..; Angel.. ( Timeout before spanking. ); olsch.. ( For every action, a consequence: time-outs and warnings first. ); Steph.. (aka. Pink..), Vbryd.. ( Wrong when used excessively. )
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ThePh.. – Spanking tends to escalate into beatings. This pattern of thought reinforces itself in punishment. In response, the child retaliates or seeks
physical affection in any form.
Gina.. – “.. it is because I have lost my temper..punishment is not directly proportional to the mischievous act.”
Thatm.. – Spanking fulfills parental desire to establish an order of authority, rather than an altruistic edifying intent for the child to realise and learn from impropriety. Corporal punishment is demeaning: are children and adults not humans and therefore be accorded similar respect ? Does force beget force ?
Sexmu.. – Spanking is to be lazy in parenting. A child can be brought up well heeled without resorting to violence which is results from frustration.
Becca.. – Advantage of hindsight provides alternative views and solutions.
As_It.. – Circumspection by illustration to dissuade impropriety.
Karen.. – Threat of corporal punishment would suffice as deterrent.
Night.. – As above.
Jazmi.. – “..other ways to discipline children..I am not against it..there are other ways.” :: To cherry pick, held in contention either for or against spanking.
Liz.. – Other non-physical ways of discipline exist.
Lost.. – Spanking is an out molded form of discipline.
AMAND.. – “Never spank.”
Head knowledge is different from application..punishment involves revealing consequences and engaging the child to explain the what and whys of impropriety and subsequent resolution..helps the child think things through before they act. I want my children to
- do the right thing because they know it is the right thing.
- to obey me because they trust and respect me.
Resorting to spanking shows a lack of
- thought on use of non-violent alternatives.
“My children are not my possessions..children and adults alike test boundaries because they are human..and are not rationalised equally.”
Last count as of 06 March.
:: It does appear a case of human rights gone awry.