how do i become more appealing towards women?


16 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Man, that's a pretty broad question.

    1) Hygen. Shower or bath daily. Brush your teeth, again, daily. Use some deoderant. Again. Daily. Get a haircut. Trim your facial hair. Clip your fingernails...

    2) Clothes. Clean. The less wrinkles the better. No holes. Brand names are only important to shallow people. Style is somewhat important, but that is more a personal thing. I mean everyone has their own style, but yellow socks, green pants and orange shirts only look good on clowns..

    3) Confidence. Women like self confident men. They want to believe you chose them over all the other women that you could have had. That is why they date losers. The mistake indiference for confidence. The best way to gain confidence with women is to go out on dates. Dates are for making friends. Definition of a Girlfriend? A girl who is your friend. So go on lots of dates. Make friends. Get to know lots of women so you know what it is you are looking for. Sooner or latter you'll go on a date with someone who you really like & who likes you...

    4) Respect. Be a gentleman. Treat her like a lady. Be honest with her and yourself. If you really love someone, you want them to be happy. If she doesn't have the same deep emotions for you, do you now hate her? No. Not if you really do care about her. She is still your friend.

    5) Respect yourself. That means doing all of the above but also have some goals in life. I don't care if you didn't finish high school and you're flippin' burgers at McDonald's. Look to better yourself. If your only goal is to put in your 8 and go home to play xbox 'till midnight, you're not going to be very appealing.

    6) Oh, one more thing. Language. There is a proper time and place for slang. But people judge you on the words you use. If you're dropping the F bomb every other sentence... If you are watchin' the game with your buds, the F bomb is required. If you're with a woman... It's not.

    Good luck.


  • Jo
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It must be that you have had some kind of negative feedback for you to conclude that you need to be more appealing to women. Do you have a trusted friend that you could ask for an honest evaluation? That might be a first step. Make a checklist of possible reasons starting with some basic ones; for example, hygiene. Then ask yourself the following: Are you confident around women? Women love a confident man and that has little to do with outward appearance. Do you cultivate good communication skills? Are you a listener or do you simply talk about yourself? The ability to focus on the woman you are speaking to; the ability to listen and to smile and to ask her questions are all good starting points. How are your table manners and manners in general? Could you be needing to brush up in any of these areas? Good luck to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    that totally depends on what you are trying to make more appealing. try joining a gym and working out. Try getting some nice clothes and keep up your hygine. make an effort to be appealing. Girls know when someone is trying to make a good impression and not just throwing on the first clean thing you see in the morning.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Get in shape. You had better have good personel hygeine if you don't. All I am saying is, one maybe two showers daily. I dont know a bout other girls but facial hair is not attractive. Greasy hair is not attractive. You should describe yourself. I really cant help you if I have no idea what you look like. But I now think its possible for anyone to become attractive. Once on mtv I saw the ugliest grossest hairiest fatttest guy be transformed into a model. like omfg its possible. chin up kid. good luck.

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  • 1 decade ago

    have a nice body, smell really good, wear nice clothing, have a nice smile, get a nice car.. get a new hair cut.. etc. etc. if you really want to become more appealing towards women, start being yourself!

  • 1 decade ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    keep your self clean make sure your teeth are nice an white women always spot that keep your hair good dress well and be nice and honest

    pos go to the gym as well that usually reels them in

  • 4 years ago

    you have got a gorgeous motor vehicle, good seems, and you nonetheless won't get the female thats going out with the nicely-known guy anywayz. initiate smiling extra, assembly each and every female you notice, be laid decrease back, initiate training bein humorous and enjoy existence! compliment lady you notice in a severe way and enable them to appreciate you like something, from their hair to their shoes. do it! earlier its too late.

  • Friend
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    By making them feel special. How to do that? Tell them they are smart, sexy, funny, gorgeous and so on. Do little things like opening the door, sending small gifts/flowers,...Smelling good is also important.

  • 1 decade ago

    Talk with confidence, smile, and joke. Try to smell good it always helps.

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