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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

when to have sex and when not to?

when do u have sex

20 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    when you are both ready to do it and when you are up to deal with the consequences. don't go and say i love him so lets do it, i dont want to lose him so lets do it. it should be from the heart and you must be matured enough to do it and understand what you are doing. is recommended to wait till marriage because otherwise you could be used over and over again. people will say you are easy and might want to be your bf just to get with you. be careful with that question and the answer you expect to get. keep your dignity and self respect. dont do it just because someone is telling you to do it. good luck and hope i could help.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    A good question!

    I would suggest that you have sex when you feel perfectly comfortable with the person you intend to have sex with, and when the circumstances tell you it is the right thing to do.

    If you feel in the slightest way uncomfortable, DON'T DO IT!!!!

    and ... you don't have to love someone to have sex with them. As long as you like them, are attracted to them, and you feel you want to share your body with them, then it is fine

  • I don't believe in casual sex and I believe that sex should be w/in the bounds of marriage but if not, then in a committed relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    it depends on how your asking. are you wanting to know when the right age to have sex is? cause the answer to that is that there is no right age. if your asking how much to have sex then thats up to you and your man. whenever your in the mood.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i really wanna have sex, i always think about it. im only 20 years old.

    when do you have it? when u and your boyfriend, can hide in your room. and make sure that your mom or dad dont see it, it will be a big secret LOL.

  • 1 decade ago

    You should have sex your first time on your wedding night.

  • 1 decade ago

    When you both feel ready. Don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do. The first time is suppose to be special.

  • 1 decade ago

    When I ever I get the chance.

    Though doing it at a funeral might be frowned upon


  • 1 decade ago

    theres not really a specific time ... its just whenever you feel like youre with the person you want to do it with ... dont feel like you have to though ... theres lots of time , & if the person youre with wont wait , then theyre not the one to be with , there should be no pressure & you should feel 100 % comfortable .

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    whenever i find a willing partner and whenever we are ready --- im well past "wait till you are married and stay a virgin" been there done that and its no fun ---- best wishes and have fun

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