Courtney asked in Beauty & StyleMakeup · 1 decade ago

SOOo MUCH STRESS!?

'm 13 years old. I go to a new school, and I have many stresses.

I have been absent about 8 days, in total from school. (I started school in September.) Now, two of my teachers said, after I asked them if its okay they're like "You're cutting it pretty close, but try nto to miss any more days of school." I missed so much because I've been REALLY sick.And I asked the counselar and all that, I asked him "What's the limit on how many days you can be absent?" He like "There really isn't a limit, just don't miss too many. Obviously, if you miss too many days we're going to have to send you a letter through the mail, but if you're just missing school to sleep in" and I cut him off when he said that, I'm like "Oh no, my mom would NEVER let me do that" He's like "I know she wouldn't, but if you're missing school because you really are sick, then there is really nothing we can do." I'm like, so I won't miss any more days, he's like "Don't worry, try not to miss any more days.u should be fine

Update:

I'm in eighth grade.

Also, what's going to happen?

I told my counser, "I won't miss any more days, I don't want a letter through the mail" He's like "Has this happened to you before?" "I'm like only in second grade, because I had the flu, I was really sick". He's like ok.

What's going to happen? It's okay right?!

PLEASE HELP ME! The school isn't going to fail me or anything right? (I do all the work!)

They're not going to fail me are they? ANything bad going to happen? I WON'T miss any more days.

PLEASE HELP ME! I'm the kind of girl that worries TOO MUCH!

9 minutes ago

F.Y.I. I MADE UP ALL THE WORK!!

I also completed all the work and everything.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Talk to your parents about it

  • 1 decade ago

    Im a eighth grader too. But u noe i had a friend who missed over 40 days of school..ANd i had a friend who barely goes to school left back >.> SO JUST TRY TO NOT MISS OVER 10 days. My teachers say u have to be here 90 percent of the time

  • 1 decade ago

    I "took off" a whole year in high school and still graduated on time and with my class. Don't sweat the small stuff, 8 days is nothing. I missed 150 out of the 180 day school year. Cheer up, don't stress, you are took young for that.

  • 1 decade ago

    Okay girl, calm down! Your school will not fail you! They're probably just trying to threaten you to ensure you won't miss any more classes. I've missed like 15 days in a school yeah before and I passed with good grades. As long as your absences are legit they can't fail you.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if you're sick, then go see a doctor. i wouldnt worry about missing too many days if you're completing the work---id worry about the health issue. if it's caused by stress, go see a therapist (it doesnt hurt--no one is perfect). talk to your parents or your old friends about the move that you made, and talk to a couple of the people in your school about what their is to do around town. im sure youll make it through this---moving is hard, and you just have get used to the change.

    good luck, hun.

  • 1 decade ago

    I dont believe that the school will hold you back. I mean there are kids who dont even speak any english that are graduating. The only grades that count are your four years of high school before college. It is only practice up to the eighth grade.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ask your teachers for an extension on all homework assignments and projects. Talk to them in person, preferable with your mom or dad, and tell them whats been going on. They should be able to give you an extension on your assignments. I hope all works well for you

  • 1 decade ago

    well my sciens teacher says its the law to go to skool at least for 100 days. im not sure how many days of skool thier is untill summer. SORRY. but dont worry. thier isnt anything that they can do to u.

  • 1 decade ago

    8 days?!?!? heck i know ppl at my school whose missed over 20 days!!! well do you ever have a doctors excuse? if you have tell your parents that your teachers have been saying that. you can't help it if you're sick.

  • XOXO
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    you're complaing way too much....just wait until you;re a junior in high school, even if you don't miss a day, you'll die, harder than missing a semester in middle school by a million times. just deal with it, you'll be more prepared for HS torture.

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