I Don't wanna be with my Girlfriend on "Valentines day" - Please get me out of this dillema..... Help plz

I dont wana be with my gal on the coming valentines day.

I am saying this coz my GF is not at all affectionate, she hardly shows any and even when she shows its because i have fighted with her about the issue in past and she does it only to show-off to me and surely she doesnt feel anything much in her heart.

Still i am countinuing the relationship coz i hope she will change by my love - so anyways what u guyz say?

I shld be there with her on valentine's? - If yes, what to do to further show i luv her like anything. I dont need anything extreme please, Quite simple things wud be great.

OR i shud avoid her on tht day - Coz i knw tht she dont luv me tht much so thers no use telling her i luv her like anything blah blah blah....

Update:

Plz Don't tell 2 end the relationship - I cant yet

Update 2:

Plz Don't tell 2 end the relationship - I cant yet

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  • Monet
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Best Answer

    sounds messed up, you have feeling for her but she doesn't have feelings for you.You don't want to break up with her bec. you think she'll fall in love with you. OK that sounds really messed up. Does she knock you around, love hurts type of relationship. Just show up on V-day so you can take your butt whipping

  • 1 decade ago

    Have you asked her if she wants to celebrate Valentine's day with you? Maybe she feels the way you do about not wanting to be together that day. Also, how do you know that when she tries to show affection to you that she is trying to show-off? Maybe she's really trying but just isn't very good at it, maybe she needs to feel more comfortable around you first. I think that if she wants you to be with her on Valentine's day, then you should be there, otherwise, she is going to think that you don't like her as much as you say you do, and maybe you could get her like a teddy bear with a heart or something that says I Love you, that way, you don't actually have to say it, but your getting the message across.

  • 1 decade ago

    In every relationship someone loves the other more. I don't understand why you can't end the relationship. Understand that you cannot change a person. So you having this illusion of happily ever after, that one day she is gonna wake up loving you like you want....sorry. You obviously need more out of your love affairs than she does.You have a choice of accepting it and spending V Day together or ending it before.

    Source(s): 40 years,3 marriages
  • 1 decade ago

    I was going to say End the Relationship cuz if she doesn't love you she never will..(not in the way you want her to) But you asked me not to say that so I won't.

    If you don't think you can stand being with her on Valentines day then don't. If lying is your thing and living a lie.....then keep on doing it......It only Hurts YOU in the long run.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like you're sending mixed messages, but the one that is telling me the most is that you're fighting a lost cause. You're girl just isn't really into you, it looks like she's just using you, and if so why would you even want to continue the relationship? I know you say you 'can't' continue the relationship but it sounds like you need to. It won't be any less easier in the future, when she literally basically shoves you out of her life when she finds what she'd been looking for in the beginning.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    don't end the relationship dear, never ever, some women don't know how to show there love even they love the person from there heart, but they didn't learn how to show it, so be Patience and wait till the end, celebrate Valentine with her, in romantic dinner and buy for her sweet gift and u will see what she will say, try to kiss her see she want to kiss u too, i am sure believe me, because in this case women always want a kiss in Valentine day from there b.f good luck with her.. tell me what will happen i am waiting

  • bacher
    Lv 4
    3 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Well - since you don't want to end the relationship you just have to suck it up and deal with it. You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want to keep her then you have to spend that holiday with her!!! If you can't deal with the idea of spending the holiday together then I guess you made up your own mind about it being over.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    its the way it goes sometimes.. one person will care for the other person more.

    the only thing i can think of is. dont make it a big deal if she isnt. you can be with her on that day and still dont do anything special, make it a regular day. let's see her reactions.. sometimes you have to show less to receive more.. its bull.. but its that way.

  • 1 decade ago

    Lol, you should hang with Baby Boy. This will solve your dilemma. I would say something else but you said not to.

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