If you have to fight for his love instead of it coming from him naturally?

I have read alot of questions that say go for it...fight for him...call him and say that you love him...but what if he said he doesn't want a commitment, that everything was too intense....it's not you it's me...What if you feel foolish in his eyes, Do you still fight to get him back? Don't you just let him go???

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  • 1 decade ago
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    do whatever u feel is right.ull know in ur heart if its right

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if it doesnt come naturally, if its feeling forced....how long can that last? its not an arranged marriage is it? you dont have to let him go, keep him in your heart. but yeah, kinda foolish, probably and just hope for inner peace eventually. peace.

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to follow your heart., But you also need to check yourself and Protect your felling. Make sure this person understands, that you care for him. Many people like to play that game "it's not you it's me" them that should be the clue to move on and protect your heart and feelings

    Source(s): I have been in your shoes with a person I care about, and I cryed for days waiting for her to come around
  • 1 decade ago

    wake up!!! there so many guys out there you see them everyday. when the right one comes he will being the one asking this Q&A do what you have to do to forget him because if he loved you he would just love being with you and no one else

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  • 1 decade ago

    been there, done that faught like mad for the man i loved.. and in the end i had to let him go anyway.

    If he is addiment about not wanting commitment u cant change that. he will have to change it himself later in life.

    your going to get hurt.

  • 1 decade ago

    its something not worth fighting for...not for that reason..move on and find someone that does appreciate you and would love to be with you..Good luck

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