what is the real reason?
we are separated and my soon to be ex husband has been very mean toward the situation of our children I used to worked night andnow I am on days and he still want the children to spend the night on school night because he doesn't want to paid child support. It does make sense for the children to be brought home at 4:00 i the morning because he has to be to work at 4:30. what can I do because i am sick and tired of him trying not take care of he responsbility. I went court and the judge told him if your wife get on days you will no longer have to keep the children. he his not listening at all. what can " do to make him understand. he is make it very hard for me.
- Yvette B yvettebLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
well, he is not acting in the best interest of the children, thats for sure. most of them DONT listen, and thats why they have to be forced to follow the court orders.
and the honor system doesnt work, so you (sooner or later) need to file for child support. pity doesnt pay the bills, you already know this.
go back to court and file a contempt of court order (depending upon what you already have in writing). heres the calculator; just click on your state and fill it in. it will give you a general idea. also, the last few are to help you.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
sounds to me you created the problem by switching shifts,ever stop to think the poor guy might actually like having his kids around?
- 1 decade ago
He's bitter! he's a man, most men are HUGE BABIES! soar losers.
Of course he's not going to make your life easier