Should my 17 year old daughter date a 25 year old guy?

We own a family restaurant and lots of sacrifices have been made to put our kids private education and give them a kick start in life.Our 17 year old is studying her A levels and wants and has the abilty to study medicine at university.i have objected to my kids dating any of our staff as i feel they affect the... show more We own a family restaurant and lots of sacrifices have been made to put our kids private education and give them a kick start in life.Our 17 year old is studying her A levels and wants and has the abilty to study medicine at university.i have objected to my kids dating any of our staff as i feel they affect the staff boss relation..Recently i founf out that my daughter is dating a 25 year old kitchen staff member..my wife and daughteri kept it from me. my concern is that he is distracting her from fulfiling her goals in life.i feel she should be socialising with people of her own age and interests without sounding judgemental of the other guy.Am i wrong in thinking like i do?...should i let the relation " run its course " and pick up the pieces...should i force the issue?...i dont want my relation with my daugher , nor with my wife,being affected by this..i have been honest with my feeling about this with her?...is that wrong? Am i being unreasonable?
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