Maybe someone has a clue...?

Okay, this may be odd coming from a guy, but I have to ask anyway. My wife is constantly, and I mean CONSTANTLY horny. I hate to say it, but I can't keep up with her. I've never known any woman to want to have sex everyday (or more than once a day), and I simply can't do it. I always heard men have higher sex drives than women, but that's crazy. What causes a woman to have such a high drive? She's 30, I'm 43 - is she in her prime? LOL. I just don't know! I'm not worried about her cheating to get "satisfaction," but just curious as to why the high sex drive. Could some hormone be out of wack? Ha ha - sorry - I just don't get it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    ♥ ♥ yep hormones out of whack ♥ ♥

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    A woman of 30, in good health, is indeed in her prime. Moreover, some women her age have a high threshold. Women become stronger sexually with age, while men your age begin to slow down a bit; not that you can't perform, but you just don't perform as often. You might want to channel your wive's energies. That is, find something of a strenuous nature to replace the 2 or 3 times a day sexual activity. Is she really having orgasms? This is something you need to know, because she may be enjoying the sex but not actually climaxing. If this is true, she's not really being satisfied. Some women are built in such a way that the clitoris is not actually being stimulated. You'll have to discover this.

  • 1 decade ago

    (Yes you can!) and no , a womans drive is greater than us men.

    I'm 42 and my wife is 42, your wifes hormones are not out of wack! My wife has to have sex all the time , my body has to rebuild which takes 20min, it takes her longer to have an orgasm as do I but once I do, I stay in side just lying there, no man can keep up with a woman, young or old, its all about the womans makeup. a woman can stop an orgasm but a man can't unless we pull back in the hopes that we don't explode in the process, its all about the way you breath, take deep shallow breaths, it helps to control the rate of your heartbeat. when ever you feel way too excited, hold your breath a few seconds and slowly pull back. you're going to be tired after the first anyways, so just lay there an in the mean time focus on using your fingers ever so gently on the outer area of her lining not giving her a clue that you just shot off, work it till you have gained momentum and start again. another thing, your wifes sex drive is because of you. she wants to be where she is and it excites her when she looks at you, talk to you, kisses you. just don't ever get tired of it. once she knows that you are willing to go further, she'll slow down and her love for you will be greater than you could ever imagine.

    Source(s): Freaky is as Freaky does.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The most likely cause of her insatiable horniness is lack of clitoral orgasm. Clitoral orgasm for a woman is similar to a man's orgasm. And just as a man looses for a while his desire to have sex after an orgasm, so does a woman who has had a clitoral orgasm.

    Women almost never have clitoral orgasm during regular sexual intercourse. This kind of orgasm comes either from masturbation or from cunnilingus. And perhaps you should practice and learn to perfom both on your wife, if you want to satisfy her in such way that her sex-drive will fall in line with yours.

    When a man has sex without having an orgasm, then his desire doesn't go away. And he is for all intents and purposes 'insatiable' until he does have an orgasm. The same can be true for a woman, especially if she hasn't been strongly socialized to inhibit her sexual feelings.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It's not ALWAYS you men that have to be the horny ones.....lol

    I am the same way! My husband is constantly making fun of me, and turning me down. I am not sure what it is.... some women just have a certain time in their lives (if not their whole life) where they are unusually horny. :p Just make sure that you don't turn her down.... usually, once we are satisfied, we don't always have to come running back for me. Although, that may not be her case..... I personally could have sex 7 times a day if my husband's schedule (and private parts) could handle it.

    :)

    Source(s): Because I am a woman who is allllllways feeling "rowdy".
  • 1 decade ago

    Well You are very lucky, I imagine if is the opposite? Some woman reach the HIGH level at 30's or 40's, she is into that at the moment and you should be smart enough to satisfy her. What about foreplay, hands and tongue? That will work for her believe me..

    Lucky you!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    kevin!!! wow really well its a fact that women reach their peak at 30 and men at 18 !! o the irony when we want it they don’t when they want it where to impotent lol but there is light at the end of the tunnel----look put up with it or she willllll cheat this is what u do u pretend got dam it u play it off u don’t have to put too much work in to it remember we got 4 play bang her dude eat her out even tough ur mind is not in to it force ur self and when u neeed a extra boost there is vaigra make her happy get drunk and do her don’t let her down man

  • 1 decade ago

    I went through that phase in my 30s. I was so bad my hubby called me a nymphomaniac of all things. But, I never considered cheating and I'll bet your wife hasn't either. My problem was my hormones and it could well be hers, too, but only a doctor can tell for sure.

  • 1 decade ago

    Our drive may be higher,but our bodies don't keep up with that drive.We have one,maybe two orgasms then we are need to rest and replenish.Women can have as many as 4 or 5 in one section.Their bodies don't have to shut down like ours do,sometime their like energizer bunnies.They keep going and going,and coming and coming.Be glad you have a woman who is like that.If she wasn't,you would think something else was wrong with her.

  • 1 decade ago

    When you figure things out, would you mind telling us what is causing the high sex drive?

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