What do women look for in guys?

It seems being white hurts your chance of getting a date with a girl...why? Are we ugly?

Update:

Deirdre i have never treated anyone with disrespect and i believe in everyone right to dignity, obviously this is not a view you share with me. In less then 60 words that you read, words that i wrote, you have already labeled me a racist. How dare you. Maybe the reason why I feel its difficult to date is because i keep running across women like you. You are truly a racist..............

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    i dont think being white hurts your chances...it all depends on the preferances of the girls which definitely differs. i like a guy with a sense of humor

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It depends on the girl.

    In general terms

    There are different options:

    1. A guy with a good heart and smart

    2. A rich guy

    3. A normal guy, who is not desperate to get laid

    You have lots of different things

    but the basics are

    1. a brain, some money, security, confidence, a future,

  • 1 decade ago

    No, it's not that you may be ugly, so don't think foolishly. Generally speaking, women want their men to be caring in every way, to show their love in as many ways as the men can, to be respectful of the woman and her wants/needs, to be helpful around house, to be a good lister, to love and appreciate the woman the way she is and not to force any change on her at all.... God, so many things! Oh, and by the way, you don't HAVE to be rich with money for the woman to like you. Most actually prefer richness in love and care. Some women don't like for their men to be physical with them.....

  • 1 decade ago

    White has nothing to do with it but acting like an *** would certainly lower your chances. Stop sounding like a whiny, racist and treat women and people from other races and cultures with respect and that will definitely be a huge turn on.

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  • Liz
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Brains.

  • 1 decade ago

    Personality a nice smile some one to call you just to say good night or sweet dreams.

  • 1 decade ago

    well...i am a girl...so maybe i can help........some girls like boys that are sensitave and sweet and treat them with respect.....not boys that are like AL OVER them......just get to know her and try to talk and find things that you have in common

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    your not ugly, just lacking in equipment.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    girls dont like boys, girls like cars and money..

    Source(s): good song lol
  • 1 decade ago

    we want money and romance.............................in a guy.

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