Did he just want S-e-x ?
A guy I dated long ago found me online 2 months ago.
He acted at first like he was still the sweet guy I knew him as.
I couldnt see him right away because he lived in hometown & I was moving home at year end.
Our IMs got very flirty. At a couple points he got extreme with S&M stuff but I chalked it up to him getting overexcited.
I moved home a week ago and he contacted me Xmas night.
He wanted me to come over to his house later Xmas night.
I joked that he wanted a Chsitmas Booty call and he got mad online and called me a B^tch. He then said he didnt want me because I had been mean.
2 days later I told him that I had no plans for New Year's Eve because I had to take care of my grandmother who recently had a heart attack and broke her back.
Instead of writing that he was sorry, he wrote back and asked if I d like to come by his place around 11pm -midnight that same night.
That made me irate, so I finally wrote and nicely explained that I have high standards. That I never compromise my dating ideals and that if he would like to ask me out on a normal proper date that would be great.
But I wont just come over to his place at night like that.
So now dead silence on his end. Nada response at all.
I was on AIM and Yahoo IM and so was he. He didnt IM me nor email me last night.
His silence speaks volumes.
Should I just ignore this creepy player or tell him off for good ?
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Ignore him. Telling him off could escalate things to a level you don't want.