do i wait for her?

im in love with a girl at school and im freinds with her and ive asked her out a couple times and told her i love her. ive known her for a year and it was love at first sight for me. she says shes not ready for a boyfreind. so do i wait untill shes ready or stop loving her and move on?

16 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    it depends how much you love her.

    maybe you shouldnt tell her love her that often, it might freak her out and scare her out of the idea of a realtionship with you.

    maybe she just needs to take it slow.

    but if you love her, you might as well wait.

    a year is alot.

    why stop now?

    goodluck [[:

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Move on ..... she is probably being polite and does not want to hurt your feelings in saying that she is not ready for a boyfriend which means no, she is not interested. Date other girls, if she gets jealous then you know that she really likes you, if it does not bother her at all then you know you have made the right decision and she is not interested in you. The fact that you have tried several times to ask her out and she has declined indicates that she is clearly not interested, sorry to be so blunt, but no point waiting around for what "could be". Just get out there and start having fun and date other girls ..... see what happens. Good luck and Happy New Year.

  • 1 decade ago sorry to tell you this.

    when a girl says shes "not ready for a boyfriend" or "not looking for a boyfriend right now" that ALWAYS means she simply doesnt like you that way....

    I know because that is what i always say when guys that i only like as friends ask me out. you should move on. I know its sad and its hard, but you dont wanna spend the rest of your life waiting for her or annoy her for so long that in the end she gets with you just to make you stop asking her. you wouldnt want that. You deserve somebody who wants to be with you because of YOU! =)

    happy new years!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ok wow i'm in that same situation now wit ma gurl. But the question u should ask ur self is she worth waiting for? Cause i know mine is we are just taking it slow cause we don't want to ruin our relationship. But i think u should wait, but does she love u too? Like does she feel the same about u?

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  • 1 decade ago

    Ok since she's not ready maybe you should move on ,but you can also go with someone else. you got nothig to lose because she say's shes not ready for a boyfriend and nothing bad should happen.

    Source(s): Myself
  • 1 decade ago

    well sorry 2 say but shes probably out wit sum other guys or sumthin [no girl is not ready these days] or maybe she is those types like me...u should wait but tell her 2 let u kno when she is ready so it can be romantic

  • 1 decade ago

    just relax for a little bit. give her time to think but stay close to her. talk and hang out with her as much as possible but dont always make it sexual or like girlfriend/boyfriend kinda stuff. just go out, have a good time and maybe she'll realize that you really do love her and change her mind about a relationship. also, give her compliments when you see her. tell her she looks beautiful, you like her hair, etc.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Move on, she doesn't like you the way you like her and she's using "i'm not ready for a boyfriend", as an excuse. move on

  • 1 decade ago

    wait 4 her

    good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    u can certainly do both:wait 4 her & move on w/ sum otha chick dat real digs u(u didnt have 2 try 2 hard w/ dat 1).

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