when your dating some one far away and u r gone 4 a long time and u end up with some 1 closer 2 u what happens
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I think if you are in such a position, sit down at ask yourself what the outcome is if you chose a given individual.
It's very easy to get attracted to another person if the one you're already talking to is geographically distant, but always remember the fact that you are playing with peoples' feelings and emotions.
You would do yourself benefit if you try to 'look ahead' and 'predict' how things will be with that given individual and base your actions on such.
Either way, you are playing with peoples feelings whether they are close or distant so 'play your cards wisely'
- sistablu...MaatLv 71 decade ago
Our feelings can and often do change.It can easy happens even when you are living close by and are together a lot.
Above everything,you have the right to be with who ever you choose!
Don't let anyone make you feel guilt over your feelings,that is really important.
Sometimes our hearts are stronger willed than our
heads.That doesn't make you a bad person.
This time apart may just have made it clear to you that he wasn't really the one.Its no ones fault it happens!
What you may have thought was love,just wasn't.
Im thinking this is what has happened to you!
If it was real true love,you would be never have found yourself in a situation where you began to doubt,and finding your feelings have changed.
Its far better for you,to make this realisation now? Than find out after all that loneliness you've begun to feel,by keeping the pause button on your life.
I think you already know deep within who you want to be with.
Do have respect for the other other guy though, tell him your feelings as soon as possible.
Hope it all works out for you.
- 1 decade ago
The universe explodes. Please be careful, my house is almost paid for and I'd like to enjoy it for a day or two before time stops.
Seriously, don't take yourself so seriously. You are one person out of billions. What makes you think the first girl or boy is thinking of you. If you walk down the mall you'll probably see a dozen people you are attracted to. It works the same way for everyone. You are not indispensable. You are not the center of the universe, and you are probably not as attractive as you think you are.
Relax, enjoy your new relationship. If you talk to the previous person, thank them for the time you spent together, but emphasize that it is time for both of you to move on.
Good luck. Enjoy life, don't anguish about it.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
you start dating the one that is closer.
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- 1 decade ago
someone is going to get hurt......end one relationship before beginning another one.
- LizLv 71 decade ago
You are exposed for what you are.